2023-04-22 18:58:00
My wife and I only have one son, so from a young age I always took care of him. When my children got married to the city, we also gave them nearly 3 billion to buy a house for convenience in living and working. My husband and I still work and live in the countryside.
Because we live 100km away from our children, and we are busy with work, so my husband and I rarely go to the city to visit our children. Only 2-3 times a year, we go for regular medical check-ups, then take advantage of it. Most of the time, once every 1-2 months, son and daughter-in-law come home to visit their parents.
Every time my two children come back, I make all kinds of dishes to treat my daughter-in-law. My daughter-in-law always tells me that I’m good at drawing and making too many dishes that my children can’t eat. But in my opinion, when the child has gone home, he has to eat and drink comfortably, and it’s okay to have a little excess. When the children left, I wrapped large packages of fresh food from the countryside and brought it to the city.
Recently, the two of them announced that they were pregnant and my wife and I were very happy. (Illustration)
Because the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are far away, perhaps the affection thanks to that is also more intimate. Daughter-in-law also knows how to behave and care about her parents-in-law. Whenever I hear that my grandparents are sick or the sun is getting a little tired, I call to ask and then send tonics for them to drink.
Recently, the two of them announced that they were pregnant and my wife and I were very happy. Because of the anchorage, we have been looking forward to being promoted for a long time, but the two of us have not had good news. Due to morning sickness, my daughter-in-law is lazy to eat, so I often tell my son to buy a lot of things his wife likes to supplement.
Yesterday, I had to go to the city, I didn’t know if I could drop in to my children’s house, so I didn’t inform them in advance. But luckily, the work was finished at about 12 noon, partly because I wanted to see how my daughter-in-law was pregnant, so I called a taxi to go straight to the house for a surprise.
Arriving at the doorbell, the pale daughter-in-law opened the door. I said I was so tired of morning sickness that I had to lie down all morning until now. When I saw my mother-in-law coming, I was also very happy, invited my mother to stay for lunch. Then I went to cook for about 30 minutes, then brought out a tray of rice for the two of us to eat.
Imagine that more than half a year before the mother-in-law came to play, the daughter-in-law must be treated generously. Over here, looking at the tray of rice, there are exactly 3 dishes, 1 dish of boiled water spinach, 1 plate of salted eggplant and 1 plate of roasted meat that I am fed up with.
What is a frugal tray of rice like this, how can a person like me come back from a sunny day? The daughter-in-law didn’t even know the idea of giving her mother-in-law a lot, but if I like to eat, I have to say it’s tired, so I don’t bother to swallow. My daughter-in-law also said she sympathizes with her because I was so surprised that she only took out the food from the refrigerator to cook without having time to prepare.
After eating lunch with my daughter-in-law, I didn’t bother to stay until the afternoon, but left immediately, making excuses to catch the bus. The whole way back, I was resentful when my daughter-in-law treated her mother-in-law with a tray of meager rice. Obviously in the city everything is convenient without knowing the way to buy and sell.
Such an attitude and way of welcoming the next time I want to come in, I will stop by everyone’s house. (Illustration)
When I got home, I wanted to call my daughter-in-law, but my husband kept saying she was having morning sickness, don’t think about it any more. The son who knew about it also said to forgive his wife because his wife was suffering from severe morning sickness. It’s just that my mother-in-law came up, so I tried to get up and cook, but at home, I was lying on the bed. He was also worried and asked his mother and wife if such severe morning sickness would affect the baby in the womb. I said no, rest assured, any pregnant woman will not have morning sickness, but it will have no effect on the fetus.
Actually, although everyone speaks for the daughter-in-law, such an attitude and way of welcoming next time I want to come in, I will drop by everyone’s house. If I stay here, I’ll take care of it if I don’t, I don’t even want to go up there.
Will the fetus be affected when the mother has heavy morning sickness?
Pregnant women with morning sickness often worry that this will affect the fetus because the symptoms of morning sickness can make pregnant women feel anorexia, fatigue, and even weight loss.
However, mothers do not need to be too worried if morning sickness is normal. An interesting fact is that the fetus will know how to absorb the necessary nutrients from the mother. Most fetuses will not be seriously affected by morning sickness, even this is a good sign that the fetus is developing normally because the placenta is increasing the secretion of hormones such as estrogen, Beta hCG into the blood. mom makes me nauseous.
Only when a pregnant mother has too much morning sickness, is exhausted from morning sickness, cannot eat and loses a lot of water, will the fetus be affected if not timely intervention.
In fact, pregnant women who experience morning sickness during pregnancy have a lower miscarriage rate than those who do not. But if the mother has severe morning sickness, it leads to electrolyte disturbances that affect both the mother and the fetus. Pregnant women who are pregnant, have severe morning sickness but suddenly stop having morning sickness, it is also recommended to check the status of the fetus.
In addition, morning sickness also helps the fetus to be protected when it is still young thanks to the increase of hormones during early pregnancy. Besides, when pregnant women have morning sickness, they will limit the consumption of many foods, be more sensitive to taste, thereby helping to avoid the risk of transmitting diseases to the fetus through food.
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