“Reader Question: Is Oral Sex Better Than Penetration for Women? Expert Sexologist Answers”

2023-05-17 10:15:47

reader questionPenetration sex is perhaps the best for men, but does that also apply to women? Oral sex should also be the main course of a love affair, says sexologist Minke de Boer in response to a female reader’s question: ‘Is it strange that I like oral sex better than penetration?’ In this section, our experts answer a reader’s question every week about relationships, health, nutrition and other topics.

Minke de Boer: ,,No, it is certainly not strange to prefer oral sex. In women, the tip of the clitoris is the most sensitive part and is often more easily stimulated during oral sex than during penetrative sex. Did you know that 70 percent of women don’t come from penetration alone? The vagina is not that sensitive inside. It is a delivery channel, so it also has the advantage of being less sensitive. There is more feeling at the opening. But most of the feeling is in the clitoris.

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Perhaps it would be good to explain a little more about that. This organ is much larger than the small button visible from the outside. In the body, the clitoris still has large outgrowths which also consist of erectile tissue. These cavernous bodies are similar to those in the penis and swell with sexual arousal. Penetration sex is only good when these cavernous bodies are completely swollen. This makes the vagina easily accessible and there is less chance of pain.

The cavernous bodies of the clitoris are similar to those of the penis

Some people see oral sex as foreplay, as a warm-up so that ‘the real work’ can then begin, the penetration. I think sex is best when there is variety. And so too that oral sex can be the main course. I believe that knowledge about your own body and what you like contributes to a nice sex life. So I think it’s a plus that you know what you like, so you can also indicate this.

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