2023-06-08 02:24:36
Surely you have never heard of this behavior and what are the effects that disorganized attachment can cause us, that is why we explain what it is about.
Believe it or not, this kind of behaviors are usually related to ghostingthe term with which we identify people who disappear as if they were a ghost.
There are several reasons why a person decides to move away from us, that is why we reveal how you can identify a person with disorganized attachment.
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How does disorganized attachment affect?
You should know what to have disorganized attachment as adults it can have various consequences, such as having difficulties identifying the emotions from other persons.
As a consequence, people who encounter a disorganized attachment person they may think that their way of reacting is because they have done something wrong.
How does an adult with disorganized attachment behave?
To identify a adult with disorganized attachment We can find some characteristics such as the following:
- Avoid the people around you
- run away from people
- Anxiety for fear of abandonment
- Fear of not being reciprocated
- Tendency to sabotage relationships
- Fear a ser vulnerable
- He can be affectionate and then distant
- Difficulty regulating emotions
- Doubts about wanting or not a relationship
- Difficulty expressing your emotions and feelings
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How to know if my partner has disorganized attachment?
It could be difficult to identify the signals, since there are actions that are usually similar to others behaviorsbut if you want to give yourself an idea, you should know that his behavior is very contradictory, because sometimes he is a person affectionate and in others it is cold.
We can also identify that you have reactions impulsive and even explosive, since a relatively small problem can be disproportionate for a person with disorganized attachment.
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How is disorganized attachment removed?
It is important to go to therapy if we believe it necessary, since here we will know the reason why we begin to carry out these actions that are sometimes related to events traumatic.
The National Library of Medicine indicates that there are traumatic events in childhood that can affect us in our adult life, such as:
- Natural disasters
- sexual assault
- The death sudden from someone close
- among other events
Now that you know what the effects of disorganized attachment are and how we can find a solution, we recommend you seek support from a specialist and watch the following video:
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