2024-04-18 09:33:20
Mr. Hegmann, in your opinion, what are the most common reasons for couples to separate?
Most people cite reasons such as falling apart, dishonesty and infidelity. These are common answers in studies that I have accompanied. In practical experience, however, I often see that couples separate because the partner has become a person that you don’t like. But if you look closer, you realize that you don’t like yourself anymore either. For example, when in conflict situations you display behavior that your parents found terrible. This leads to you doubting more and more whether the relationship is good for you. If doubt persists, it leads to frustration. Then I demand changes from my partner. Because you have the feeling that you have already invested a lot.
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