2024-09-30 13:34:05
Actor Farhan Akhtar has moved forward in his life after divorce from his ex-wife Adhuna. After divorce, Farhan married Shibani Dandekar for the second time. Farhan had reached Rhea Chakraborty’s show with his wife and here he told that his divorce has affected his daughters.
The actor said that whatever happened between him and his wife, there was no fault of his two daughters. This has caused them collateral damage. He is very sad that his divorce has had a bad impact on both his daughters and has hurt him emotionally.
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How should parents handle children?
In this matter, in an article published in Times Now, Dr. Dharmesh Shah, Director of Holistica World, has given some tips to protect children from harm due to divorce of parents. First of all, he has said that Farhan’s talk about collateral damage to children due to divorce is wrong. Such words should not be used for children. Let us now know how the harm caused to children due to divorce can be prevented.
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Don’t make your child a messenger
Many times, parents make their child a messenger to convey their message to their ex-partner. This is wrong with children because it can put pressure on the child. He may come face to face with the problems of elders at an early age, which is not good for his development.
Good Parenthood Practices
you are not the reason
You should make it clear to the child that he is not the reason for your divorce. You tell the child that even if circumstances change tomorrow, your love for them will never change. You are moving away from your partner, not from them. Assure the child that you are still with him and will support him.
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keep the child away
When you are talking to your ex-partner about co-parenting the child, there is no need to involve the child in all this. It is possible that some of your words may hurt the child’s heart. Therefore, whatever discussion has to be done, do it alone and keep the child away from it.
It is justified for children to be angry
Farhan said that if his children are angry at him for why he chose divorce and why he did not try to work on his marriage, then somehow they are right. His anger is justified and he may feel sad because of this. The actor said that things can be rectified with time and conversation.
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