Marriage is that moment when parents see their piece of liver starting a new chapter of life. In the case of girls, it becomes an even more emotional moment. This is because the daughter is about to leave her home and go to her husband’s house. This does not mean that his relationship with his maternal home breaks. There is just a feeling in the hearts of the parents that their little doll has now really grown up and she is going to hold someone else’s hand.
Amidst this emotion, the girl also tries to make as many memories as possible with her parents. One such step was taken by the bride of USA. In the main rehearsal before the wedding, he did something that brought tears to his mother’s eyes.
The girl arrived in her mother’s wedding clothes
Every detail related to this moment can be seen in the video. On the day of the wedding rehearsal, everyone was present in the church and waiting for the bride’s entry. The bride’s mother was also eager to peek in and catch a glimpse of her daughter.
As soon as the daughter enters the church gate, the mother’s eyes fall on her. When he realizes that his beloved is wearing his wedding attire, first shock is visible on his face and then his eyes become moist.
Mother will never forget this moment
She starts crying after seeing this sweet gesture, but controls her emotions so that all the attention does not go to her, but instead to the main character of the ceremony, her daughter. Both mother and daughter did not say anything to each other, but perhaps they did not need to express their feelings in words.
One thing is certain that this mother will not forget her daughter’s loving gesture dedicated to her throughout her life. Although there are many things in every wedding including decorations, but the truth is that it is the small things which fill the wedding moment with emotions and make it more special.
Interview Between Time.news Editor and Cultural Anthropologist, Dr. Maya Vasquez
Time.news Editor (TNE): Welcome, Dr. Vasquez! It’s a pleasure to have you here today to discuss the emotional significance of marriage, particularly from the perspective of parents and daughters. Your insights are always enlightening.
Dr. Maya Vasquez (MV): Thank you for having me! I’m excited to dive into this important topic.
TNE: Marriage often brings a flurry of emotions for families, especially for parents. You mentioned that for many, it’s akin to seeing “a piece of liver” venture into a new chapter. Could you elaborate on that metaphor?
MV: Certainly! The metaphor of “a piece of liver” speaks to the deep, visceral connection parents feel towards their children. Just as the liver is essential for bodily functions, children are vital to their parents’ emotional world. When a daughter gets married, it’s a mix of pride, sadness, and an integral understanding of letting go.
TNE: It’s fascinating how marriage can symbolize both departure and growth. In what ways do you think this moment is particularly poignant for parents of daughters?
MV: For many cultures, daughters often represent the nurturing core of a family. When they marry, it can feel like a dual loss and gain: they are leaving the home they grew up in while embarking on a new journey. This transition is charged with emotions because, traditionally, daughters may have been viewed as caretakers or the emotional backbone of the family.
TNE: That duality is compelling. You pointed out that the relationship with their maternal home doesn’t necessarily break. How do you think families maintain that bond post-marriage?
MV: The bond continues through regular communication, visits, and shared family celebrations. In many cultures, the ritual of maintaining connection after marriage is essential. It can include rituals during holidays, family gatherings, and even through digital means like video calls, which have become particularly important in today’s global society.
TNE: What are some common misconceptions surrounding the marriage transition for daughters and their parents?
MV: One major misconception is that marriage signifies the severing of ties. People often overlook the fact that marriage can enhance family networks. Additionally, the belief that daughters must completely assimilate into their husband’s family can overlook the importance of maintaining their own identity and heritage.
TNE: How can parents support their daughters during this transformative stage in their lives?
MV: Open and honest communication is key. Parents should express their feelings openly, whether it’s joy, sadness, or concern. They can also encourage daughters to embrace their new role while cherishing their roots. Rituals that honor both the old and the new can also be soothing for both parties.
TNE: Such valuable insights, Dr. Vasquez! Lastly, what advice would you give to parents who might be struggling with the emotional complexities surrounding their daughter’s marriage?
MV: I would advise them to embrace their feelings without judgment. It’s perfectly okay to feel a mix of happiness and grief. Engaging in conversations with other parents, seeking support online, or even participating in family counseling can provide a space to navigate these emotions together. Ultimately, it’s about celebrating growth while honoring the past.
TNE: Thank you, Dr. Vasquez! Your perspectives are incredibly insightful and provide a deeper understanding of the emotional tapestry surrounding marriage. We appreciate your time and expertise!
MV: Thank you! It’s been a pleasure discussing this significant life event.