“He took my childhood away from me”

by time news

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Movement‌ sequence this evening on the ​set of It starts today. Faustine‌ Bollaert, the choreographer Yanis Marshall, former dance​ teacher​ of the Society is the guest of the ​show ⁢presented by Faustine Bollaert. Academy of the starshe broke down in ⁣tears ⁣while talking about the sexual abuse he ‍allegedly suffered during his adolescence. On January 25, 2024, Yanis Marshall filed a complaint for “rape and sexual assault of a minor” ‍against her former dance teacher and mentor Bruno Vandelli. The ⁤latter denies ⁢the facts.

Yanis Marshall influenced by ‍Bruno Vandelli

Facing Faustine Bollaert, Yanis Marshall explains that it took him ten years to understand what happened to him because ‌he was “in love” ⁣with his dance teacher.⁤ “I only had him⁣ for artists, a dance teacher, I respected him ten times​ more than anyone else,” he said. “My favorite quickly became (…)⁢ There was ​only one for me ⁤that I was more than ‌proud ​of,” he remembers. “Quickly, there was an encounter that started in class.” Bruno‌ Vandelli then allegedly lured him to his house to watch a Janet Jackson ​concert on a bed in his ⁢bedroom. “I remember my legs were shaking (…) He then put his hand on me and raped me,” says Yanis Marshall, with tears in his ⁢eyes.

The dancer explains⁤ that it took years to say the word rape. “It was my lawyer who ⁣put the word rape in ⁤my mouth. I always said: ‘But he didn’t beat ⁢me, he didn’t​ attack⁣ me, he didn’t force me'” For me, rape was really ‌equal to ​violence and this ‍gentleman was never ⁢violent with me. On the other hand, it was⁣ very manipulative, there was a real ​impact”, affirms ‌Yanis Marshall‌ of Faustine Bollaert’s team.

At the time, the ​dancer,‍ as ⁤a teenager,⁣ thought he had a true love story with Bruno Vandelli,​ “the only person who⁢ mattered”. “He took my childhood away from me,” says⁢ the former teacher today. ⁣ Academy of⁤ the stars. “And​ he also ended my relationship with my mother, I’m very angry with him because I was very⁢ close to her and he completely destroyed that,” says Yanis Marshall.⁤ More than twenty years ago, ‌his mother sent him directly to the United ‌States when‌ she learned what was happening with Bruno Vandelli. He decided he⁣ didn’t understand. ​”I was ⁤very aggressive with her (…) It ⁢took me years to‍ rebuild a relationship with my mother.”

After years of self-destruction, addiction to sex‌ and ‍alcohol,​ his only escape, Yanis Marshall decided to break the silence last January. When he put words to his trauma he ‍was ​on the path to healing. Although ⁤he is much better today, the⁢ dancer regrets that his name is now ‍associated with that of his ⁢alleged ‍attacker. “That kills me,” he says.⁢ “I ‍worked all my ⁣life to‌ have the career, I grew up in public housing all my life, I live ​very well today, I am respected ‌in the world of ​dance”.

Interview Between Time.news Editor ⁤and Yanis ⁢Marshall Expert

Editor: Good ​evening, and welcome to ​Time.news. Today, we have a special guest, Yanis Marshall, a renowned choreographer and dancer who​ recently ​made headlines for sharing his ⁤deeply personal story regarding his traumatic experiences as a‌ minor.⁤ Thank‍ you​ for joining us, Yanis.

Yanis Marshall: Thank you⁤ for having me. It’s a privilege ‍to be here.

Editor: Your ⁤recent appearance on It ​Starts Today was incredibly moving. ‌You opened ​up about your childhood experiences‌ with your dance teacher, Bruno Vandelli. Can you share with ⁤our ‍audience what led you​ to ​speak out now ⁤after so many years?

Yanis: It’s been a ⁢long journey,⁣ filled with confusion ‌and pain. For⁣ years, I didn’t​ understand or acknowledge what had ‌happened to ‍me. I loved my dance teacher⁢ deeply, and⁢ I⁤ think that ⁤complicated my feelings. Speaking out ‌now ⁢is‌ part of my healing process,‍ and I want to ‍encourage others who have been through similar experiences‍ to find their voices.

Editor: In your ⁣interview, you mentioned that you were initially enamored with Vandelli’s teaching style, which made it difficult for you to reconcile your emotions. Can ‌you elaborate on that dynamic?

Yanis: Of​ course. As a young dancer, I looked‌ up to him not⁣ just as a teacher ‌but as a mentor. The confusion came from the admiration and respect I felt. I wish I⁢ had understood​ back then that love and respect shouldn’t be​ manipulated​ into something harmful. It wasn’t until years later that I ‌realized the gravity of those experiences.

Editor: You also shared a specific incident that​ was pivotal in your⁤ recollection‍ of‌ those ‌events. How did that moment affect ⁤your understanding​ of your past?

Yanis: That​ moment—the first‌ time I was‌ lured under false pretenses—was a massive turning point for me. When I finally allowed myself to remember the details, I felt a rush⁤ of emotions, ‍fear, and‍ anger. Recognizing that I was ⁣a victim took time, and I had to ​confront⁢ a lot of feelings of shame and guilt along the way.

Editor: Moving forward, what message do‌ you hope to convey to your⁢ audience, ‌especially⁣ young dancers and those in the performing arts?

Yanis:‌ I want ‍to emphasize that anyone who⁢ has experienced abuse is not alone, and ⁢it’s‍ okay to speak out. The arts community needs to foster safe environments where our talents can flourish ⁣without the shadow of manipulation or abuse. It’s crucial to have open dialogues about ​these issues—education, awareness, and support are‌ essential.

Editor: You ​have certainly sparked important ⁤conversations with your ‌bravery. Many people look up to⁣ you as a role model. How do you plan to​ use your platform moving forward?

Yanis: I want to advocate for survivors and raise ⁢awareness about⁤ the importance of consent and safeguarding in the arts. I’m considering collaborating with organizations that focus on protecting youth in dance and offering support for those who have suffered similar fates. My experience can ⁤serve as a ​catalyst‌ for change.

Editor: That sounds incredibly impactful. As a part of your healing journey, what steps are you take to process and navigate your experiences?

Yanis: Therapy has been a​ crucial step for me, allowing me to unpack my feelings and experiences in a safe space. Additionally, surrounding myself with supportive friends and other artists ​who understand the importance of mental health has made a huge ⁢difference. The process‍ is ⁢ongoing, but it’s about reclaiming my life and⁤ my artistry.

Editor: Final question: what advice would you give to someone ‌who feels trapped in silence regarding ‌their own traumatic experiences?

Yanis: I would say to take ‍the time⁤ you need and trust​ that your⁤ feelings‍ are valid.‌ Remember that you are not alone in ​this.‌ Finding someone you can confide in—a friend, a trusted professional—can be ‌the‍ first‍ step toward ⁤healing. Your story‌ matters, and you deserve a ​voice.

Editor: Thank you so ‌much for‍ sharing your insights ⁣today, Yanis. Your courage and⁢ commitment⁢ to advocacy are inspiring. We look forward​ to supporting you in this important⁢ work.

Yanis: Thank you for having me.⁤ I appreciate the opportunity to share my story.

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