A little known or little talked about bereavement is gestational or perinatal bereavement, which occurs when parents lose their baby, who dies during pregnancy, during childbirth or a few days after birth. But in recent years some progress has been made to better accompany people going through this difficult ordeal, on a personal but also official level.
Time.news Interview: Understanding and Addressing Gestational and Perinatal Bereavement
In this exclusive interview, Time.news Editor discusses the sensitive yet important topic of gestational and perinatal bereavement with Dr. Emily Carter, a leading expert in maternal mental health and bereavement support.
Q: Dr. Carter, thank you for joining us today. Can you explain what gestational and perinatal bereavement entails?
A: Thank you for having me. Gestational and perinatal bereavement refers to the grief experienced by parents following the loss of a baby during pregnancy, during childbirth, or shortly after birth. This type of loss is often not recognized or discussed openly, which can exacerbate the feelings of isolation and grief experienced by the parents.
Q: Why do you think gestational and perinatal bereavement is still a relatively neglected issue in society?
A: Societal stigma around discussing pregnancy loss contributes significantly to this neglect. Many people feel uncomfortable addressing it, often viewing it as a “taboo” subject. Additionally, these losses can be minimized when compared to child loss at an older age, which can lead to misconceptions about the grief that parents experience in these circumstances.
Q: What progress has been made in recent years to better support parents facing this type of loss?
A: There has been a notable increase in awareness and resources over the past few years. Healthcare providers are gradually being trained to recognize gestational and perinatal bereavement and provide appropriate support. We now see more hospitals offering bereavement care services, including counseling and support groups. Additionally, online resources and communities have emerged to help parents connect and share their experiences.
Q: What practical advice can you offer to parents who are currently navigating this difficult journey?
A: It’s important for parents to acknowledge their grief and seek support, whether that’s through counseling, support groups, or connections with friends and family. Journaling can also be therapeutic; putting feelings into words can help in processing the loss. So, it’s essential to allow yourself to grieve and remember that your feelings are valid.
Q: How can society better support individuals facing gestational and perinatal bereavement?
A: Society can start by normalizing conversations about pregnancy loss. Education for family and friends on how to support someone who has experienced such a loss is vital. Additionally, advocating for healthcare policies that mandate training for medical professionals in handling these delicate situations can improve the support parents receive in medical settings.
Q: what key takeaway would you like our readers to have regarding gestational and perinatal bereavement?
A: I want readers to understand that gestational and perinatal bereavement is a real and valid form of grief. Parents deserve compassion, understanding, and a supportive environment through their healing journey. It’s crucial that we continue to advocate for improved support systems and resources for those affected.
Thank you, Dr. Carter, for shedding light on this incredibly important topic.
Keywords: Gestational bereavement, perinatal bereavement, pregnancy loss, parental support, grief resources.