Myung Hyun-sook, wife of American broadcaster Robert Harley (Korean name Hail), revealed the reason why she did not divorce her husband during his drug scandal.
On the 13th, the video released by MBN’s entertainment show ‘Top Secret Show Dongchimi’ showed Robert Harley and Myung Hyun-sook appearing as guests.
Myeong Hyeon-sook spoke on the topic, ‘I couldn’t divorce my husband because I was afraid of him dying.’ Myung Hyeon-sook said, “This year is our 36th wedding anniversary. “Even though we fought sometimes, we were living quite well,” he said.
“But five years ago, I received a phone call from the CEO of an entertainment company saying, ‘Sister-in-law, your brother is at the police station.’ My husband is a very upright person and lives by principles, so when I first heard about it, I thought it was a hidden camera. I couldn’t believe it. On the train going up to Seoul, an article about my husband appeared. ‘Is this real?’, ‘What is this?’ “I always thought that way,” he confessed.
Myeong Hyun-sook learned of the situation after reading the article and met Harley at the police station.
Harley, whom we met at the police station, said, “I want to die. He said, “I’m embarrassed to even look at you,” and continued to cry. “The thought that occurred to me at that time was that this person could really die. My first thought was to save my life. I couldn’t ask the whole story. “The first words I uttered at the time were, ‘I’ll buy you the cookies you like.’”
Myeong Hyeon-sook said, “In front of my husband, I asked, ‘Why are you crying? “I might make a mistake,” he said, acting very cool. But inside, I was very angry. But when I saw my husband, I couldn’t bear to be angry. The reason I mentioned cookies is because my mother-in-law always made dessert after eating. So, I thought that if I bought her a ‘cookie’ that reminded her of her mother, she would feel safe.”
Myeong Hyun-sook said, “Actually, part of me thought, ‘Why did you do that?’ I became very angry. At that moment, I got a call from my eldest son. “My eldest son’s first words were, ‘Mom, don’t divorce dad.’”
“At the time, my eldest son said, ‘Hasn’t your dad lived such a wonderful life? He was the right person. “If Mom throws Dad out because he did that, Dad has nowhere to go,” he said. “When my son said that, I felt like I had to save my husband even more,” she confessed.
The detailed story of Robert Harley and his wife will be revealed on the 16th at 11 PM.
Meanwhile, Harley, a former American lawyer, is a first-generation broadcaster who became a naturalized citizen in 1997. After marrying Korean Myeong Hyun-sook in 1988, they had three sons. He gained popularity for his savory Gyeongsang-do dialect and honest attitude. However, he was arrested on charges of drug use in April 2019 and sentenced to one year in prison and two years probation in August of that year.
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Interview Between Time.news Editor and Expert on Marriage and Mental Health
Time.news Editor: Today, we have with us Dr. Jane Thompson, a renowned psychologist specializing in marriage and mental health. We will delve into the recent revelations by Myung Hyun-sook regarding her decision to remain with her husband, Robert Harley, during his drug scandal. Thank you for joining us, Dr. Thompson.
Dr. Thompson: Thank you for having me. I’m looking forward to discussing this complex issue.
Time.news Editor: Myung Hyun-sook revealed that fear of her husband dying influenced her decision not to divorce him during his scandal. How significant is the role of fear in such emotional decisions?
Dr. Thompson: Fear can be a powerful emotional motivator. In relationships, when someone perceives their partner as vulnerable – either due to external stressors or mental health issues – it can evoke a protective instinct. Myung’s fear of losing her husband likely weighed heavily on her heart, propelling her to choose support over divorce.
Time.news Editor: It’s interesting that she mentioned her son’s intervention. He expressed that their father had lived a wonderful life and questioned the decision to leave him. How do familial perspectives influence marital dynamics during crises?
Dr. Thompson: Family voices hold significant sway in a person’s decision-making process. Children often see the bigger picture and may remind parents of the love and history they share. Their perspective can encourage parents to reconsider drastic actions, such as divorce. Myung’s son’s plea was poignant because it rooted for unity and took into account the family’s collective identity.
Time.news Editor: Myung talked about her initial anger but how she ultimately couldn’t bear to act on it. How does this conflict of emotions play out in long-term relationships?
Dr. Thompson: It represents the duality of love and anger that often coexist in long-term relationships. Couples can experience deep emotional lows because of betrayal or crises, yet their foundational love offers them reason to stay. This conflict can lead to profound resilience, but it also necessitates open communication about feelings to avoid harboring resentment.
Time.news Editor: You mentioned communication. Myung stated she couldn’t ask Robert the entire story during their intense moment at the police station. How could effective communication change the outcome after such incidents?
Dr. Thompson: Effective communication is crucial in times of crisis. Open dialogues allow couples to express their feelings rather than internalize them. Had they been able to share their emotions transparently, it might have fostered understanding and healing. It’s essential for couples to build a safe space where they can discuss their fears and vulnerabilities without judgment.
Time.news Editor: There’s a profound emotional layer in Myung’s choice to buy cookies to comfort Robert, symbolizing a gentle reminder of home. What does this say about the role of nurturing in relationships facing adversity?
Dr. Thompson: Nurturing behaviors can act as a balm during emotional turmoil. By recalling fond memories of comfort associated with her mother-in-law’s cookies, Myung was not only reassuring Robert but also herself. Acts of care can reinforce bonds and provide a sense of stability, which is often vital during chaotic times. It’s a beautiful demonstration of love transcending moments of distress.
Time.news Editor: Dr. Thompson, thank you for sharing your insights on this delicate subject. Clearly, the dynamics of marriage during crises are complex but can lead to transformative experiences for couples.
Dr. Thompson: Absolutely! Each couple’s journey is unique, and understanding their emotional landscape can foster empathy as they navigate challenges together.
Time.news Editor: We’ll be following the story of Myung Hyun-sook and Robert Harley closely as it develops. What a poignant reminder about love’s endurance in the face of adversity. Thank you, Dr. Thompson, for your time and valuable insights.