One of the well-known yeshivas in Jerusalem took an insensitive act against a yeshiva student, an orphan, and in a scandalous decision banned her students from attending his wedding | The reason: the groom has taken an active part in a “modern” wedding in the past If the groom begged the management of the yeshiva – but was refused Full details
An orphaned boy from a father who studied at one of the yeshivas in Jerusalem got married last night (Thursday) at a good time, but to his surprise when he left the special room he was surprised to discover the dance floor was deserted after his yeshiva friends did not arrive.
The wedding in question was held in the vineyards hall in Beit Shemesh. The groom is a student of one of the yeshivas in Jerusalem, where it is customary for all the boys to go on an organized shuttle to their friends’ weddings.
This time the yeshiva took a blatantly insensitive act, all the more so when it came to a father orphaned by a father, and forbade the boys to happily attend. The yeshiva boycotted the wedding of the orphaned guy, with a firm warning that a guy who is at the wedding will not be able to return to the yeshiva. The reason for the boycott was known to Behadrei Haredim is the fact that the groom was an active participant in a “modern” wedding of one of the yeshiva students that took place earlier.
A note hung on a bulletin board within the walls of the yeshiva states: Him on the big day of his life.
One of the participants, who was present at the Beit Shemesh hall, spoke to a reporter in the Haredi rooms, and what he said was nothing short of shocking: Her son’s wedding is ruined – fell on deaf ears.
The orphan groom, who left the uniqueness room to dance with his friends on the happiest day of his life, became acquainted with a hall that was empty of celebrants, followed in his footsteps and locked himself in an uniqueness room for about an hour and a half.
But the ending was particularly surprising and exciting.
Many people who were exposed to the painful story through social networks mobilized and came en masse to the happy bride and groom, among the many rejoicers were the students of the holy ‘Matmidim’ yeshiva who enlisted en masse and took an active part in the dances. “Who is like your people Israel?”
Ariel
What’s the name of the boycotting yeshiva that we know to beware of?
Really really cry
Uncle
God will pay your reward with your consent !!!
Regarding the yeshiva in which he studied: God is the father of orphans
There are things that are forbidden but forbidden to do! Those responsible will bear the consequences on the Day of Judgment. (As long as the candle is lit it can be repaired!)
Hope this shocking story will strengthen us all how sensitive we should be to each other and thanks to free love we will have complete redemption soon, Amen.
Ariah
An orphan and a widow God cares for them and if it is an ultra-Orthodox yeshiva it is better to close it if it is the education they receive there
What?
I’m shocked!!!!
Hanania
I wonder if after such a mitzvah for the sake of heaven of torture of an orphan and a widow to educate reverence for heaven, this rabbi has completed his correction in the world.
Leah
disgrace!!
Widow and orphan do not treat them that way
I wish the stomach would pay them for this behavior
Do not give a bad name to the yeshiva, because the yeshiva management did try to reverse the decision without success, because the rabbi there decided it and did not interest him in anything, like this without a drop of sensitivity
Just shockingly heartbreaking
Unfortunately a groom on his wedding day has no forgiveness for this
The main thing that they are an important meeting like this is probably educating today shame and disgrace !!!!!
Where is the mitzvah of Simchat Hatan together with the mitzvot of Simchat Yatom?
What about pity for a widow and an orphan? Where did we get to? Is this the purpose of Torah study in yeshivas? What about and loved your neighbor as yourself
One of the participants
Does not give Admor who made this decision heartbreaking ….
Let the overseers quickly apologize
And I was angry with you and I killed you and your sons were orphans and your wives were widows
Very very need to be careful in the tears of a widow.
The Hasidim do not have true love for Israel
Mm
Where is the love of Israel where ???
The sorrow of the Divine
I was left and my teachings were not kept. What is a groom on his wedding day, what is a bride on her wedding day? !!!
A.
Abraham
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In this generation the poor feel their right to cross borders. Invite this generation to be at risk to facilitate the right to tweet about education and morality. What about the duties of each framing tool student regardless of the presence of parents in his or her life? There is a social trend just to blame the decision makers without seeing considerations widely
And says
From the laymen I am no longer excited, doing worse things.
What is exciting about this story is Klal Yisrael, they heard that there is a wedding that needs happy people, they put their affairs aside and came to be happy.
Blessed are you Israel
Just shame and boycott for this thinking all their Torah study is not worth anything !!!!!!!!!!!!! Proper behavior precedes the Torah
Veteran
To publish the name of the yeshiva, and to mention that Derech Eretz preceded the Torah, these are things that have no lesson … and the giving of graces. Reminder, Torah Torah Wear a sack.
one
Just shocking
Joseph
Better before you write talk to the other side
Let all these domineering rabbis go to hell
I am a graduate of the yeshiva and even attended the wedding.
You are not ashamed to post a video that clearly shows – because half of the dancers are students of the yeshiva in question .. Some of those present are even people who work in the yeshiva.
The young man has not been studying at the Jewish yeshiva lately and therefore a third order has not been canceled.
None of those present will be expelled from the meeting
The wording of the ad published at the yeshiva is the wording of the response that was published: “On behalf of the spiritual management, do not attend a wedding at the Shofa tomorrow Thursday, and even a third order was announced as usual …” and no one threatened to be expelled from the yeshiva.
And says
I wonder if every former guy of the yeshiva … puts out an ad … and so on …
Did you not notice that this is someone who violated the rules of discipline in the yeshiva,
And this is the usual sanctions in the yeshiva.
So that he may eat for himself what he has cooked,
And congratulations to those who are on guard at the yeshiva.
And you ‘in my room’ and all the respondents,
Who is your name to decide what should be done?
Are you educators? Have you ever had a meeting?
Everyone who stays to study there. Helps shed blood and whiten his friend’s face in public and more orphan.
To engage everyone equally in the other sitting is bloodshed
How can the mother of the groom and also the groom himself be grieved in such a vicious way?
He who lacks sensitivity to others, can not be on a high spiritual level !!!
Shulamit
Just exciting!
What good people …
Joy breaks boundaries …
Such topics should not be discussed in media articles.
Rachel
Truth!
It may be that the yeshiva could not give legitimacy to participate happily for these reasons …. but the real truth cries out “an orphan and a widow will not answer” …..
May God help and there will be reconciliation and not trouble.
He has not studied at the yeshiva in the last year …
He was a truck driver holding a smartphone etc.
So they did not want the young men to come to the wedding because all kinds of modern guys from other meetings would come there
In the community of the boys in the kibbutz, even the staff and the Ramim arrived,
There’s a new overseer in the yeshiva who dumped 5 guys so they’ll stir it up,
At every regular meeting there are times that the overseer is not allowed to come to all kinds of weddings of former alumni.
What values, to the glory of the State of Israel (aha I actually forgot that you are in the Diaspora).
follower
Congratulations to keyboardist Yohanan Uri who lifted the glove
And made sure that guys came to dance and be happy
Many thanks to him !!
Not against discipline Yes against sadistic cruelty ..maybe it’s time to think outside the box about sane punishments that do not harm wide circles … family .. etc.