Leigh Ryswyk: Former AFL Player Comes Out as Gay

by Liam O'Connor

Leigh Ryswyk, a former Brisbane Lions rookie, has grow the first openly gay man to have played in the Australian Football League (AFL). The announcement, made Wednesday on Melbourne radio station JOY 94.9, marks a significant moment for inclusivity in a sport that has seen increasing, though still evolving, conversations around LGBTQ+ representation. Ryswyk’s decision to share his story follows that of Mitch Brown, a former West Coast Eagles player who came out as bisexual last year, paving the way for greater openness within the league.

Ryswyk’s journey to this point wasn’t defined solely by his time in the AFL. While he played a single game for the Lions in 2005, wearing the number 32 previously held by Shaun Hart, his career truly flourished in South Australia. He went on to play 226 games for North Adelaide in the SANFL, becoming a celebrated figure in the state league and even representing South Australia in four second-tier state games. He capped off his playing days with a reserves grand final premiership in 2018, a victory he barely thought he’d reach after battling a late-season rib injury.

A Quiet Life, Now Public

For years, Ryswyk kept his sexuality private, sharing the information only with close friends and family. He explained on the GayFL indicate that he’s been out to those nearest to him for approximately five years. “There will be people though, if they do listen to this, it will be the first time they know about this; I’m a very private person, so it’s not all over my social media, and things like that, and that’s fine,” he said. He acknowledged the potential for surprise, but emphasized the importance of those closest to him knowing and accepting him for who he is.

The decision to arrive out publicly, Ryswyk revealed, wasn’t immediate. He described a three-year period of internal deliberation and mental preparation. “It took me a little while where I was comfortable enough to do this,” he explained. The support he received from his parents was particularly impactful. He recounted a deeply emotional conversation with his mother, where her simple affirmation – “I still love you” – resonated profoundly. His father’s reaction, he added, was equally moving, offering unconditional love and acceptance.

Breaking Barriers in Australian Rules Football

Ryswyk’s announcement arrives at a time when the AFL is actively discussing ways to become more inclusive. While Brown’s coming out as bisexual last year was a landmark moment, Ryswyk’s declaration as openly gay represents another step forward. As reported by Fox Sports, Brown’s experience highlighted the need for continued dialogue and support within the AFL community.

Former Lions player turned SANFL champion Leigh Ryswyk has come out as gay.Source: FOX SPORTS

Ryswyk expressed optimism about the future, believing that any current AFL player who chooses to come out would be met with widespread support. “I feel the AFL, and the community, will wrap their arms around that player,” he stated. “I think the community itself, obviously the queer community, the fan base, I think in the whole they will celebrate that when the time comes.” This sentiment reflects a growing acceptance and understanding of LGBTQ+ individuals within Australian society, and a willingness to create a more inclusive environment in professional sports.

A Career Beyond the AFL

While his time in the AFL was brief, Ryswyk’s impact on the South Australian football scene was considerable. Inducted into the AFL Queensland Football Hall of Fame, his dedication and skill were recognized beyond his single appearance for the Brisbane Lions. His 226 games for North Adelaide, coupled with his state representation, cemented his legacy as a respected and accomplished player. His 2018 reserves grand final premiership, achieved despite battling a rib injury, stands as a testament to his resilience and commitment to the game.

North Adelaide’s Leigh Ryswyk celebrates kicking a goal in 2017. Picture: Tom HuntleySource: News Corp Australia

Ryswyk’s story is a reminder that athletic achievement and personal identity are not mutually exclusive. His willingness to share his truth, even after his playing career has concluded, is a powerful act of courage and a contribution to a more inclusive sporting landscape. The AFL has not yet commented directly on Ryswyk’s announcement, but the league is expected to address the matter in the coming days. The focus will likely be on reaffirming its commitment to diversity and inclusion, and on providing support to any current or future players who may choose to come out.

As the conversation around LGBTQ+ inclusion in Australian Rules Football continues, Ryswyk’s story serves as an inspiration and a catalyst for change. His openness and honesty will undoubtedly encourage others to live authentically, both on and off the field.

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