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While ordering coffee at my favorite cafe, I chat with the owner about the appetizing coffee beans that came in today. On my way back home, I chat with a woman I often see while walking her dog about her favorite walking course these days. I also briefly say hello to my neighbor who was in the elevator with me, saying that the weather has become much colder. At work, I sometimes meet other team mates I haven’t seen in a while and ask how they are doing.
None of these people play a significant role in our lives. Maybe it’s just a fate. However, on days when you don’t meet even one person to have this kind of casual conversation, you may feel more empty than you think. This is as even when we are having meaningless and shallow conversations, it affects my daily happiness like a light rain soaks my clothes.
If relationships with close family and friends are called ‘strong ties,’ relationships with people who do not know each other well are called ‘weak ties.’ When we live in a harsh and fast-paced world,it is indeed sometimes easy to become indifferent and rude to people with whom we have weak ties. If someone they meet for the first time tries to talk to them, they look at them with strange eyes and try to avoid the place. Though, many recent studies have shown that greater happiness can be felt in social environments were many weak ties can be formed. Sometimes weak ties can be just as powerful as strong ties.
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How can fostering weak ties improve community well-being?
Interview: The Importance of Weak Ties for Happiness in Modern Society
Interviewer (Editor of Time.news): Welcome to our interview series! Today, we’re diving into the interesting topic of social connections, and why those casual interactions we often take for granted can considerably affect our happiness. Joining us is Dr. Alex Tran, a sociologist specializing in social psychology. Thank you for being here, Dr. Tran!
Dr. Alex Tran: Thank you for having me! I’m excited to discuss this important topic.
Editor: Let’s begin with the concept of “weak ties.” Could you elaborate on what these are and why they matter in our daily lives?
Dr. Tran: Absolutely! Weak ties refer to acquaintances—peopel we don’t know very well but interact with regularly, like neighbors, baristas, or even someone we see on our daily walk. While they may not provide deep emotional support, research has shown that these weak ties can provide significant benefits.They serve as a bridge to new data, opportunities, and, importantly, contribute to our sense of community and overall happiness.
Editor: Captivating! The article you contributed to highlights that even meaningless conversations can impact our happiness positively. Can you explain why this happens?
Dr. Tran: Yes, what might seem like superficial exchanges, like greeting a neighbor or chatting with a barista about coffee, can create a sense of belonging. These interactions, although brief, can remind us that we are part of a larger social fabric. They break up our routine and provide small bursts of joy—like light rain on a sunny day. When we don’t engage in such interactions, it can lead to feelings of solitude and disconnect.
Editor: You touched upon the concept of solitude. In today’s fast-paced world, many people inadvertently seek solitude. How does this affect our well-being?
Dr. Tran: When we retreat into solitude,often as a response to stress or busyness,we may feel temporarily relieved. Though, prolonged solitude can lead to feelings of emptiness and loneliness. The absence of even weak ties can intensify these feelings. It’s essential to find a balance; engaging with weak ties can actually boost our resilience and happiness, even amidst life’s challenges.
Editor: This brings us to the observation that people often seem indifferent or even rude to those they don’t know well. What can we do to foster a more connected society?
Dr. Tran: That’s a great question. It starts with awareness. We can cultivate an approach of openness and curiosity towards others. Simple acts, like making eye contact, smiling, or initiating a small conversation, can transform our interactions. Encouraging social initiatives within communities, like meet-ups or public events, can also help people engage more with one another, creating stronger community bonds overall.
Editor: As we wrap up, what is your key takeaway for our readers interested in enhancing their happiness through social connections?
Dr.Tran: My key message would be to embrace the power of weak ties. Even small interactions have the potential to uplift our spirits and add meaning to our lives. So, next time you find yourself in a casual encounter, seize the moment! You never know how a simple ”hello” could brighten your day.
Editor: Thank you, Dr. Tran! This was enlightening, and I’m sure our readers will be inspired to engage more with those around them.
Dr. Tran: Thank you for having me! Remember,building connections doesn’t always have to be profound—sometimes,it’s those simple exchanges that matter most.