2024-08-20 18:50:34
Kangana Ranaut is one of those actresses who are known for speaking their minds openly. Whether it is about Bollywood or politics, she never hesitates in expressing her opinion. Similarly, she believes in speaking openly about relationships. This time too, when she became a part of a podcast interview, she said such things about marriage and relationship red flags, which felt very close to the truth.
In this interview with Raj Shamani, Kangana Ranaut openly expressed her views on the right age for marriage, reasons for broken marriages, boys’ opinion on girls’ career and understanding, partners who prove to be red flags for a relationship, etc. (Kangana Ranaut Photos: Instagram@kanganaranaut)
Should everyone get married?
Kangana first called this question controversial and then said something that every mature person can completely relate to. ‘Everyone must have a companion. It becomes very difficult to live life without this companion.’
Taking her point further, Kangana said, ‘I agree that living life with a partner can be difficult, but living without them is an even more challenging experience.’
Only mature people will be able to understand this
Young people or people who are currently focused on their careers may not be able to relate to what Kangana said. But anyone who is even a little mature will be able to completely understand what the actress said.
After a certain age, all the people around a person settle down in their lives. Relationships also start changing with time. For those for whom you remained the focus throughout your life, your presence becomes secondary. In such a situation, loneliness starts taking root in the mind.
There is no one left with whom you can share your heart’s feelings or spend time with. Then you realize that if you had a companion, perhaps you would not have to endure this loneliness.
If you try to find the right partner, you will only get destruction in return
After this, when the topic of finding the right partner came up, Kangana clarified that if a person keeps looking for the right partner and one day he finds someone, then that relationship will prove to be a ‘disaster’. She emphasized that when the right person has to come in your life, he will come on his own.
Kangana told the red flags
Is it right to think like this?
What Kangana said is true to a large extent. In fact, when a person is very anxious to find a partner in his life, he makes a mistake in recognizing right and wrong. In his eagerness, he is unable to see the red flags and he has to suffer the consequences later.
On the contrary, when a person is not desperate, then when someone tries to come into his life, he is in a position to take a very thoughtful decision. This initial understanding and personality assessment can save him from many relationship problems that may arise in the future.
Kangana told the biggest red flag of a relationship
Now that we are talking about red flags, let us also tell you what Kangana thinks about this. When the actress was asked what is the biggest red flag in a relationship in her view, her answer was ‘When in a relationship only one person always puts in effort and tries to make things stable, then this is the biggest red flag.’
Kangana Ranaut’s statement is very valid. You must have heard your grandparents, parents and other relatives saying that both partners have to cooperate equally to make a relationship work.
Even relationship experts agree to this. Wherever only one person gives his 80 or 100%, that relationship is bound to break down someday.
If the girl is more intelligent and successful then the relationship may not work
Kangana Ranaut also said that relationships in which girls are more intelligent or successful than boys are bound to fail in the future.
The actress said that the male ego of boys is not able to accept that their partner is better than them. Because it does not allow them to show their male influence or dominance. However, she also admitted that it is not necessary for every boy to be like this.
Science has also accepted this
Research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology of the American Psychological Association claimed that if the wife becomes successful, the husband does not like it. He feels bad from within. He starts considering himself inferior in his own eyes. Its effect is clearly visible on the relationship.
That is, whatever Kangana said on the basis of her and her friends’ experiences is not mere talk, but it seems to be supported by science as well.