2024-04-20 21:10:37
You must have heard that ‘Love happens only once, not again and again’. But very few people are found who follow this. Some relationships are ended intentionally while others get trapped in the vicissitudes of the situation. With the passage of time, the ways of love and the time limit of love have also reduced.
Many times, amidst the ups and downs in a relationship, there come some moments where we do not understand whether what is happening is right or wrong. For example, when your partner reduces his efforts and the distance increases, then you start getting attracted to another person. So the first thought that comes to mind is why is this happening?
If you are also confused about this Vishal Bhardwaj, Relationship Coach and Founder of Predictions for Success Can take opinion. Who has explained the reason behind attraction and explained the difference between right and wrong. (All the pictures used in this article are indicative.) (Photo courtesy: pexels)
physical attraction
An important reason, which everyone may refuse to accept, but due to physical attraction, while being in a relationship, you start liking many other people. Because when someone finds a person who has more qualities than his partner, he often starts getting attracted to him.
However, at this time you should remember your partner, live those moments that you spent happily together. It should be thought that only good looks, good dress-up, money and good lifestyle are not necessary for love.
financial problems
Many times fights start in relationships due to financial problems. Because a person has many expectations from his partner. When this is not fulfilled then the distance starts increasing. Then when we find someone who can fulfill our desires, it is common to feel attracted to that person.
If this happens to you too, then talk openly to your partner, share everything in your mind so that your partner can also understand your helplessness. Then both of you together can solve the financial problem.
Honesty is important in relationships
It is very important to be honest in any relationship. If you are attracted to someone else. So do not hide this thing from your partner at all, it can spoil your relationship very much. Therefore, you should share everything with your partner, so that he gets a chance to manage the relationship.
It is possible that your partner may show understanding and explain the difference between love and attraction. Apart from this, if he is making any mistake then try to improve it also.
take informed decisions
Being attracted to someone while loving someone else is one of the most difficult phases of a relationship. So at this time you need to be patient. Discuss everything with a cool mind. First try to solve what and why is going on in your relationship.
If everything does not go well even after trying, then tell your partner about your problem. Take any decision only after discussing what is wrong and why it is not going well.