Bae Do-hwan’s mother reveals that she wants her son to get married.
On the Channel A show ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’ airing on the afternoon of the 29th, actor Bae Do-hwan, a 60-year-old bachelor who is loved for his supporting roles, and his mother Han Woong-ja will visit.
Bae Do-hwan, who experienced the pain of a failed marriage once, draws attention by sharing his recent situation of having gone on numerous blind dates to find a life partner but failing every time. When the counseling center family asks about Bae Do-hwan’s ideal type, Bae Do-hwan says he likes someone gentle and smiles a lot, and names Dr. Oh Eun-young as his ideal type, but also reveals, “My mom wants Lee Young-ae who has a good personality and is understanding,” making everyone laugh.
On this day, Bae Do-hwan’s mother, Han Woong-ja, expresses her worries, saying, “Before I die, my wish is for my 60th birthday son to get married.” She then says, “He’s my only son, and I hope he gets married within this year,” expressing her concern for her bachelor son, but Bae Do-hwan responds, “I hate my mother’s nagging about getting married,” drawing attention to the conflict between mother and son.
Dr. Oh explains, “For the generation that 83-year-old Han Woong-ja lived in, their children’s marriage is their life’s homework,” and “They consider it their mission and role.” Then, Dr. Oh watches a video of the mother and son’s daily lives. In the video, the mother Han Woong-ja visits Bae Do-hwan’s room while he is concentrating on work, mentions a woman eight times, and continues nagging him to get married. Bae Do-hwan tries to stop her nagging, but he can’t continue the conversation due to his mother’s continued scolding. Upon seeing this, Dr. Oh suggests a solution to stop the nagging, saying, “Han Woong-ja ends up using the ‘round-trip conversation method,’ where she returns the same words,” and relieves Bae Do-hwan’s frustration.
Meanwhile, Dr. Oh watches Bae Do-hwan’s blind date videos to find out how he is trying to get married and how he expresses his interest to the opposite sex. The rosy atmosphere is short-lived, but as Bae Do-hwan spouts off TMI, from soccer stories to stories about his ex-lovers, the blind date girl’s expression hardens and she continues to have a tense blind date, with him not ordering coffee for over an hour. Dr. Oh, who has been watching Bae Do-hwan closely, points out “TMI conversations” by saying, “In order to start a relationship with someone, the stakes of the conversation should be similar.”
Then, Bae Do-hwan, who says he has had that side since childhood, hesitates for a moment and confesses his hidden wounds. He confesses that when he brought his ‘female friend’, who had been his best friend since high school, home, his father misunderstood their relationship and got angry and slapped him. He confesses that since then, he seems to have started to feel embarrassed whenever he was in front of women. Dr. Oh Eun-young speculates that he felt humiliated by his father’s groundless anger and assault and felt ashamed of himself for not being able to explain himself, and says that this can lower his efficacy as a man when starting a romantic relationship.
Attention is being paid to what kind of solution Dr. Oh Eun-young will offer to the two people. The mental care program ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’, which solves various concerns in the world together, airs every Thursday at 8:10 PM on Channel A.
(Seoul = News 1)
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