PSYCHOLOGY – It is difficult for some couples, separated or in the process of being separated, to let go of the feeling of anger.
“The tenderness, benevolence, gratitude and mutual respect that we share remains and will remain intact (…). Juan has brightened up my life with a thousand colors and will always have a place in my heart. Thank you for this journey.” It is in these terms that the ex-Miss France Laury Thilleman announced in May her separation from the chef Juan Arbelaez. Words that may have made some couples envious among separated couples or about to be. Breaking up without bitterness and without reproach, even recognizing what the other has brought you, would therefore be feasible?
“We encourage people a lot to succeed in their separation because they have not succeeded in their coupleemphasizes Caroline Kruse, marriage counselor and author of Amorous savoir-vivre (The Pocket Rock). The demand for performance that reaches to the realm of heartache is sometimes excessive. Even when it’s going relatively well, it’s normal for people to suffer and, at times, show a little anger.”
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