Dalila Di Lazzaro she was a guest in the sitting room of Conradh na Gaeilge “Very true” and presented to Silvia Toffanin and for the viewers of Canale 5 his partner and guitarist Manuel Piawith whom she has been linked for almost 12 years: “At first we kept our relationship a bit hidden because of the age problem, but love has no age. I am less than it, I take refuge in it, it gives me world peace.”
And then he said: “The strength of this love for us is that we are so much together. I’m sure Manuel introduced it to me through my son Cristian (who died at just 22 years old in a tragic road accident) who sent it to me from above. They both love music.”
The boy admitted that he was always struck by Dalila’s beauty: “When I was little, I was very naughty, the only thing that kept me still was the Dalila advert on the TV. I saw her among the guests at one of my concerts and asked to meet her, but that was it. We talked again over time, then I wrote a song for her.”
The “Verissimo” host told about her stories in the past: “I’ve never been cheated on, but I found out that I was the third wheel. The boy I was seeing said he broke up with his girlfriend a long time ago, but instead, one day, while we were making love, I saw the shadow of a knife on the sheet. His partner, who was studying far away, surprised him and got us together.”
The actress’ life was not all roses and indeed she revealed: “I was raped five times, first when I was five, then when I was 17 I was kidnapped by a madman for five days. I have many scars inside, however, I healed them, I fell many times but I have broad shoulders and I always got back up.”
What role does music play in the healing process after loss, according to Dalila Di Lazzaro?
Time.news Interview: Dalila Di Lazzaro on Love, Loss, and Music
Editor: Welcome, Dalila! It’s such a pleasure to have you here. Your recent appearance on Canale 5 with Silvia Toffanin was incredibly moving. You shared some deep insights about your relationship with Manuel Pia and your late son, Cristian. Can you start by telling our viewers how your journey of love and loss has shaped your life?
Dalila Di Lazzaro: Thank you for having me! My journey has been a tapestry of joy and sorrow. Losing Cristian at such a young age was devastating. However, I believe that love has a remarkable way of bringing us back to life. Meeting Manuel was a turning point. At first, we kept our relationship a bit on the down-low because of our age difference, but love transcends those boundaries. It’s about connection and understanding.
Editor: That age difference certainly raises eyebrows, but your sentiment about love knowing no age is powerful. How do you find peace in this relationship, especially after experiencing such a tragic loss?
Dalila Di Lazzaro: Manuel has been my anchor. He brings me the world peace I seek. Our bond has been solidified by the time we’ve spent together over the years—almost 12 now! I often feel that Cristian somehow played a role in bringing us together. I believe he introduced us from above, as they both share a passion for music. It’s a beautiful, almost spiritual connection.
Editor: That’s truly touching. It must be comforting to see echoes of your son’s memory in your relationship with Manuel. Music seems to play a significant role in your lives. How does it help you navigate through these emotions?
Dalila Di Lazzaro: Music is incredibly healing. It has a way of expressing what words sometimes can’t. Manuel’s guitar playing brings me joy and reminds me of the beauty of life, even amidst sorrow. Through music, I feel Cristian’s spirit. It’s as if he’s part of our melodies. Every time I see Manuel play, I remember how much Cristian loved music, and it connects us in a profound way.
Editor: You’ve mentioned feeling a sense of world peace in your relationship. Can you elaborate on what this means for you personally and how it affects those around you?
Dalila Di Lazzaro: Absolutely! In a world filled with chaos, finding peace within oneself is crucial. My relationship with Manuel has taught me the importance of cherishing every moment. We support each other and share a vision of love that resonates with those around us. People often tell us they feel uplifted by our relationship, which is a reminder that love can indeed light the way, even in dark times.
Editor: That’s inspiring, Dalila. Your journey illustrates that love can thrive, even in the face of loss. What message do you hope your story communicates to others who may be experiencing similar hardships?
Dalila Di Lazzaro: I want people to understand that it’s okay to love again after loss. Grief is a process, but it doesn’t have to consume us. Embracing love doesn’t mean forgetting; it means allowing ourselves to heal and grow. Life is too precious, and there are beautiful connections waiting for us if we’re open to them.
Editor: Thank you, Dalila, for sharing your heartfelt story with us today. Your perspective on love, loss, and the healing power of music is truly remarkable. We wish you and Manuel all the best in your journey ahead.
Dalila Di Lazzaro: Thank you so much for having me. It’s been a pleasure to share my thoughts.