Many Hungarian stars publicly message their ex-partners after the break-up, not everyone succeeds in ending their shared past peacefully, including GwM and Melanie Nagy.
What are these messages really about, and why can former lovers scold each other in public? Tamás Fenyves, a psychotherapist and clinical psychologist, told Origo: the messages are mostly about difficult relationship matters, there is a lack of closure in them.
The parties either want to be together again or they don’t, but conflicts are continuations of emotional affairs. There are a lot of emotions, a lot of storms, which the parties have not yet processed, and which the change in the relationship brought. The need for a new relationship, the loss of the old one, both involve loss. “I had to leave” or “you left me”, these are all positions of loss, and the person is forced to solve the problems by himself. You could expect the other person to solve it for you: either by apologizing or making amends, but this is not always feasible, difficult or not possible at all
said the specialist.
Both persons are “perpetrators” and both persons are “victims”. It is especially difficult for those who live in the spotlight, as they cannot solve the problem in peace or with their loved ones. This involves public participation, but no one thinks about it at first. You can’t see the fine print, it’s like raising a child. You can’t prepare for it
concluded Tamás Fenyves.
For a year now, the press has been talking about the breakup of GwM and Melanie Nagy, and Csuti and Edina Kulcsár. In the meantime, GwM married Edina, who has since become Edina Varga, and they are expecting a baby together. However, the big day was not left without a word, Melanie posted a symbolic photo on her social media page of her holding her child’s hand. With the inscription “Hand in hand”.
Even though Edina will give birth soon, the give and take continues. Most recently, the topic was why GwM didn’t marry Melanie. The man claimed it was not his intention, Melanie chose a Mercedes instead of the wedding.
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“Every year I moved separately at least three or four times. This is enough of a sign over the years, but obviously at the beginning I fought my inner battles because of one, then two children. Many people get stuck in a bad, bogus relationship against their will, but I don’t regret it because of my two beautiful children !
Unfortunately, I don’t want to count or comment on the amount and weight of the lies, because unfortunately the world has never seen such a manipulative lying personality. The wedding was never in my own plans, then my mother started pressuring her that she wanted me to swear due to traditions, and as a result I asked years ago if she wanted a Merci or should I take her? But only because I was interested in what the answer was! Well, since then he has a Merc car and the wedding was no longer an issue.
I don’t have a problem with different principles or decisions either, but then let’s not be so hypocritical… I could tell you, I would add, about the real reasons that surrounded me, but I can still handle a lot of fakes, and then if I were to run out and give it up, then everyone will know about it anyway! But for now I don’t want to, and I hope it doesn’t have to happen,” GwM wrote about his ex-partner in the past few days.
However, according to the woman, they had planned the wedding, but they did not have the money for it yet. He announced his car on his social media page, Instagram story.
We decided to go our separate ways. There is no third person, we just walked past each other. Our love language is different
he wrote a few days later. She put it like this: “only driven domestically, in a well-maintained condition”. Ripost contacted Melanie after her ex-partner’s post, who summarized the matter briefly:
I don’t want to get involved in this, I feel these accusations are unworthy, they don’t even deserve an answer
said GwM’s former lover, and their public quarrels probably don’t end there.
Which celebrities have made public their “give and take” after the breakup in the recent period, can be seen from the Origo article.