2024-05-13 00:56:12
Some words of a poem by Munir Niazi are ‘I always delay, if I have to say an important thing or have to fulfill a promise, I always delay’. Whoever has heard this poem must have said that to his/her close ones. It must be somewhere, which may have been buried in the heart for a long time. It is not necessary that we realize someone’s importance only after they leave. Sometimes we appreciate the importance of people, but fail to tell them everything.
Something similar happened with Indian cricket team player Harshal Patel, when his sister died in 2022. Harshal loved his sister very much, but due to his sports, he was neither able to spend much time nor express his feelings openly. After his sister’s departure, Harshal had also written a post in his sister’s name, in which he had written all his feelings. How important it is to express your feelings in time. Therefore, do not delay and tell these important things to someone before losing them. (Photo courtesy: Instagram @harshalvp23)
Information about death received after the match
Harshal was playing for the Royal Challengers Bangalore team in the year 2022 and after the winning innings against Mumbai, Patel got the news that his youngest sister Archita Patel had passed away. Archita and Harshal, who was suffering from illness, were very close to each other and this was the reason why the player felt devastated after the departure of his sister. Leaving the IPL midway, Harshal went to his family and then gathered courage and came back to the field with double the enthusiasm for his sister.
note written for sister
Expressing his feelings after the demise of his sister, Harshal Patel had shared a post on Instagram in which he had written, ‘You were the most cheerful and kind person in our life. You faced even very difficult situations with a big smile. You did this till your last breath.
He further wrote that ‘After coming back to India, when I was with you in the hospital, you told me to concentrate on my game and not worry about me. These are the words that allowed me to come back and take the field last night. I am doing everything to make you proud of me. I remember you in every good and bad time of my life. lots of love. May you rest in peace Jaadi.
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Why wait for someone to leave!
Often we are not able to give as much time, love and support to the people we live with as we should. But hesitation in expressing one’s feelings or keeping things in one’s mind, thinking that only I have it, all this takes up time. In this way we are just waiting for someone to leave. After everything is over, it is better to express the feelings of the heart in time than to shed tears and regret in front of a dead body.
say things on time
Mother, father, sister, brother, cousin, friend, boyfriend or that person for whom you have been waiting for years, call or meet them today and express your feelings and open the old grievances of your mind. Keep it. Like there is a dialogue in Shahrukh Khan’s movie ‘Kya pata kal ho na ho’, so don’t wait for tomorrow and tell everything today.
choose friends not tools
‘If you had opened your heart with your friends, you would not have had to open it with tools’, you just need to understand this couplet. There comes a point in everyone’s life when we give up, in such a situation, keeping our problems in mind can be harmful for health. This can cause depression and anxiety, which can land you in the hospital. Therefore, instead of playing with tools, it is better to talk openly with friends and stay away from heart diseases.