2023-11-25 08:16:00
Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was very sensitive. There are mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law who refuse to sympathize with each other, leading to conflicts that make the man in the middle awkward. And if this problem is not resolved, there will always be a gloomy atmosphere in the house and even the family will be separated, affecting the entire generation.
Therefore, in addition to the man having to mentally resolve the problem, he also needs to be skillful and can refer to feng shui tips. According to feng shui, the mother-in-law belongs to the Khon Vi palace, which is the southwest of the house. When the southwest corner of the house has feng shui errors, it can cause more and more conflict in the mother-child relationship.
When there is water in the southwest side of the house: Check to see if this side has a fish tank or is sunken, or has a water tank… then the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to harmonize, the daughter-in-law often dominates the mother-in-law.
At this time, the man should place a glass ball below the puddle to improve the above conflict situation.
The southwest side has windows: According to feng shui, windows are a place of ventilation and also a source of wind, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will often be conflicted and have gaps that are difficult to sympathize and share. If the windows in this place are often open, it will be even more harmful. Therefore, you should fix the window or place a rockery next to the door to reduce wind loss.
The southwest side has the foot of the bed: If the bed is placed in the southwest side of the house, it will create pressure on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so they often have conflicts and tension when the baby becomes a big deal. They both felt uncomfortable with each other, thinking they were tired.
Therefore, a smart man should rotate the bed if possible, and should not add a carpet or soft cushion at the foot of the bed.
In the southwest, there is a messy toilet or closet: If this place is messy, the family’s energy is in disarray, so the negative energy is heavy and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are out of balance, easily impatient with each other and blame each other. Relationships cannot develop well because of doubts.
At this time, clean this area. If it is a storage area, broom or dustpan, you should move it to another area. This area needs to be cleaned regularly to avoid dust and dirt. You can place a natural essential oil diffuser in this corner to neutralize the problem.
In addition, smart men should list some things in the family:
Avoid having the daughter-in-law and parents-in-law’s rooms facing each other
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law’s room is opposite, the relationship is more confrontational. Therefore, you should move to a different floor, out of place or put a screen at the door of the child’s room and hang a string of money at the door of the mother’s room.
Plant more plants indoors to nourish the atmosphere
The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law means the bad energy is stronger, so it is necessary to plant more plants in the house to create harmonious, green and balanced energy. You should choose plants that both mother and child like. That can increase the air conditioning connection.
Review the sofa
The woven sofa is placed against the wall to create connection in the family, creating an atmosphere where mother-in-law and daughter-in-law bond and rely on each other. Avoid leaving the sofa unsteady and not leaning against the wall as this will create a chaotic atmosphere in the family. Pushing the sofa close to the wall brings energy to share and support each other, creating a better relationship in the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship.
Avoid sharp corners on indoor objects
Dishes, bowls, furniture, cabinets, and tables should avoid sharp, protruding corners. If so, please round the corners. Sharp corners create murderous intent, making family relationships even more tense. Dishes should be round, round tables or round corners. Household objects should be kept away from sharp points. Knives should be stored in the closet, avoid hanging knives on the wall. Avoid sharp objects pointed at the house.
When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is damaged, it is also time for the man in the middle to review his behavior. In addition to feng shui factors, it is important that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law look at the common interests of the husband’s family, children, and grandchildren so that the solution will be smoother, and the relationship will be better.
*Information is for reference and contemplation.
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