OR Vana Barba she gave an interview and among other things, she talked about her career, her personal life, her motherhood, and the choice to raise her daughter Phaedra alone, which she called a wrong and difficult decision.
With an invitation to the show “Enopios Enopio”, she spoke about the strong, but also difficult relationship with her daughter, admitting that she was not a good enough mother because of the excessive love she gave and the lack of boundaries.
The actress was especially moved when her parents’ statements were shown, referring to her tough but wise mother and how important her last care was to her.
She also talked about the health problem she developed, admitting that she never took preventive care of her health and expressed her concern to her daughter, in case something happened to her. She revealed her battle with fear and stress, emphasizing her belief that she will overcome difficulties.
Regarding his daughter, Phaedra first said: “My daughter is 22 years old and she’s the best thing I’ve ever done in my life, the biggest thing I’ve ever done. I don’t think I’m a good mother because I don’t set boundaries, I don’t have boundaries. I caress her with my love, I press her, and she is absolutely right. She taught me a lot. My daughter is my own teacher. My love for her is everything. Along with mother. I put a lot of pressure on her, which I recognize and try to manage.”. She also admitted that her daughter, who is now 22, is her teacher in life because she has taught her a lot.
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Referring to her choice to raise her daughter alone, the actress said: “I wouldn’t recommend this to any girl. It was a difficult and wrong decision. It was my consideration. Error. This nonsense was wrong. I was at a time when I was with all this glory, beauty, it is not possible… Now that he is gone I say that the child needs two. We have to be obedient, there has to be understanding, compassion.” Despite her difficulty, she does not sacrifice herself for her choice, recognizing the weight this decision had on her and her child’s soul. “The burden is too great for the soul of the child and for me. I’m not a victim, it was my choice, it was tiring.” noticed.
Vanna Barba also received an emotional reference mother who died a few months ago. The presenter surprised her, reflecting her parents’ past statements, which caused strong emotions in the actress. “My mother was cruel, Doric, but she had the wisdom that only Greek mothers have. The gift of the Greek woman, all this part will be. My father was the face. But mum had something special.” he said, adding: “Last year I had a very bad time like all of us. That last hug I got from my mother, when she was leaving, was like holding my baby in my arms.”
the actor spoke about the problem health which is in front of him. “Seems like no problem. It is something that was found in my life, which showed me that I had not done well, I never thought about prevention. I never thought proactively about my health, I always ran for others and not for myself.” she said, expressing that she understood the need for her daughter to be present.
Interview between Time.news Editor and Vana Barba
Editor: Welcome, Vana! Thank you for joining us today. Your recent interview has stirred quite a conversation, especially regarding your experience as a mother. To start us off, could you share what led you to the choice of raising your daughter, Phaedra, alone?
Vana Barba: Thank you for having me! Reflecting on that choice, I must admit it was a difficult one. Raising Phaedra alone has been challenging, and honestly, I wouldn’t recommend it to any girl. It was a decision based on my circumstances, but it came with a lot of weight.
Editor: That’s very candid of you. You mentioned that your relationship with Phaedra is strong yet complicated. How have you navigated that balance?
Vana Barba: Oh, it’s been a journey! I’ve always showered her with love, but looking back, I realize I lacked boundaries. While I thought excessive love was protective, I now see it sometimes created pressure for her. It’s a lesson I’m still learning, and she has become my teacher in many ways.
Editor: That’s profound. In the interview, you also discussed the health challenges you faced and your concerns for Phaedra’s future. Could you elaborate on that?
Vana Barba: Absolutely. I faced some health issues that made me reflect on my own care routines. Admitting that I neglected preventive health practices was tough. As a mother, I worry about my ability to be there for Phaedra. I want to overcome my fear and stress, especially with the understanding that I need to model healthy habits for her.
Editor: You’re clearly very open about your fears. How do you think sharing these experiences might impact your relationship with your daughter?
Vana Barba: I believe in being transparent with Phaedra. Sharing my vulnerabilities allows us to have deeper conversations. It helps her see that life is complex and that it’s okay to struggle. I hope that it fosters resilience in her.
Editor: It seems like you see motherhood as a two-way street, where both you and Phaedra learn from each other. What would you say you’ve learned from her during these years?
Vana Barba: So much! Phaedra has taught me patience, understanding, and the importance of allowing space for mistakes—both hers and mine. She often reminds me that love is not just about being all-encompassing but also about respecting individuality and encouraging growth.
Editor: That’s a beautiful perspective. As you continue navigating motherhood, what are you most hopeful for both you and Phaedra moving forward?
Vana Barba: I hope for a future filled with open communication and mutual respect. I want Phaedra to pursue her dreams while feeling secure in our bond. My ultimate hope is that we both continue to grow together, embracing life’s challenges while celebrating our victories.
Editor: Thank you, Vana, for sharing your insights with us. Your honesty is refreshing and your journey as a mother and individual is truly inspiring. We wish you and Phaedra all the best.
Vana Barba: Thank you! I appreciate the opportunity to share my story.