DECRYPTION – It is believed to be fundamental, but its place in the relationship varies greatly depending on the context.
“Sex is the cement of the couple! », we think we know. Such a received idea questions those who deplore, here a drop in desire, there erection failures, further difficulties to enjoy. Annoyed, they doubt the future of their couple: should they stay together when sexuality is not so fulfilled?
“Above all, I believe in redefining what fulfilling sexuality is, answers Magali Croset-Calisto, psychologist and sexologist, who published Orgasm Revolutions (Editions of the Observatory). I sometimes observe in my patients a misunderstanding. Sex is no longer taboo and speech has been freed up, which is obviously a good thing. Only, the other side of the coin is that there is now an anxiety-provoking injunction to performance, of which orgasm would be the ultimate proof. Couples do not feel up to it, sometimes guilty and sad for not being able to correspond to this model, even though all the keys to achieving it seem…
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