2024-04-02 21:23:53
Kang Won-rae, a member of the dance duo ‘Clone’, revealed an anecdote about being hurt by a fan in the past.
Kang Won-rae and Kim Song, a married couple of 21 years, appear on Channel A’s cultural drama ‘Oh Eun-young’s Gold Counseling Center’, which airs at 8:10 pm on the 2nd.
Kang Won-rae and Kim Song reveal their happy current situation with their son, who entered the fourth grade of elementary school this year. The son, who started walking using his father Kang Won-rae’s wheelchair instead of using a walker, is said to be a precious child obtained through in vitro fertilization after seven and eight attempts.
Kim Song is shocked when she confesses that the day before she gave birth, she was involved in a car accident caused by a drunk driver, so serious that her car had to be scrapped. Accordingly, Kang Won-rae confessed that he was paralyzed from the waist down after being involved in an accident while making an illegal U-turn, and that he was frustrated by his wife’s car accident, saying, “There is no more happiness for me.” However, her wife Kim Song shows her strong parental love by saying, “The child was born safely, and I was able to overcome it all with her motherly love.”
Wife Kim Song confesses her worries about the turnaround, saying, “What should we do as a couple who has lost communication?” She goes on to say that although Kim Song-eun and her husband Kang Won-rae have been together for a long time of 35 years, she has never had a real conversation with her husband. She revealed that when Kim Song complained to her husband Kang Won-rae, all she heard back was, “Stop dragging your feet, so what’s the bottom line,” and the conversation was cut off. On the other hand, Kang Won-rae said, “I have no special worries, and it is the happiest time in my life,” arousing her curiosity.
Kang Won-rae and Kim Song were also experiencing conflict about their children’s education. Kim Song claimed that her son studied well and got 100 points, but her husband Kang Won-rae was gaslighting his son by saying, “You should stop going to private academies from now on. You don’t want to go to academies, right?” Kang Won-rae countered that he could not understand her wife’s argument, saying, “All I have to do is go to school well, is there a need to go to an academy?”
Dr. Oh Eun-young, a psychiatrist, explains that elementary school children are greatly influenced by their parents’ words, and when a parent asks a child, “Do you find this fun?”, it can be interpreted as “My dad wants you to say it’s not fun.” Point out that it can be done. Then Kang Won-rae refutes, “I never said that,” and gets into a fight. Dr. Oh gives sincere advice that if you want to know your child’s true feelings, you should ask ‘open questions’ that encourage free answers, such as “How about going to an academy?”
Next, a family video shared in the waiting room is released to understand the couple’s conversation style. In the video, Kang Won-rae pours out her sharp words, saying, “I don’t read either, so what kind of book are you reading?” Dr. Oh, who confirmed this, points out that the couple does not have much conversation without the child and that the conversation is not positive. Next, he reveals three ‘non-toxic conversation methods’ to have a meaningful conversation. Meanwhile, Kang Won-rae, who interrupted Kim Song, who confessed that it was difficult to communicate with Kang Won-rae, asked, “Who are you on? He raises his voice, saying, “Why don’t you listen to my concerns?” Dr. Oh, who was watching the conversation between the two couples, made a shocking statement: “As a psychiatrist with 33 years of experience, this is my most difficult client.”
To continue the in-depth analysis, Dr. Oh discloses the results of the MMPI (Multi-Factor Personality Inventory) test. In the case of Kang Won-rae, ‘aggression’ and ‘lack of control’ are high, but if it goes too far, it can feel like he is “too direct and uninhibited.” In response, MC Lee Yoon-ji recalls her first meeting with Kang Won-rae and confesses that she was discouraged when Kang Won-rae told Lee Yoon-ji, who was worried about her thick hair, “I thought you came wearing a hat.” After hearing the story, Kang Won-rae apologizes to Lee Yoon-ji.
Dr. Oh explains about Kim Song, “Of course, it is difficult for her to comfortably express her feelings and thoughts.” Because she is the exact opposite of her straightforward husband Kang Won-rae, she points out, the child may feel that the balance of power between the parents is tilted to one side.
We are releasing an interview video to find out how our son feels. In the video, the son bursts into tears when asked by the production crew, “What emotions do you usually feel?” Next, in the emotional card given by the production team to the child who cannot express his feelings, he chose ‘sad’ as an emotion he often feels, shocking the couple. In response, Kang Won-rae said, “As Kang Won-rae’s son, I wonder if he feels uncomfortable with people’s attention,” and he sheds tears, saying that he feels like being different from others has hurt the child.
Dr. Oh asked Won-rae Kang about the injuries he received, and while Won-rae Kang was in the hospital, he refused to give an autograph to a fan who asked for an autograph, saying, “I am not a famous celebrity who is in a position to sign an autograph, but I am disabled.” Afterwards, he confessed that he secretly shed tears after hearing the verbal abuse, “Live like that for the rest of your life.” Kim Song also confesses that after the accident, he was trapped in the frame of ‘Angel Mark’ who stayed by Kang Won-rae’s side. They say I developed over 20 stomach ulcers because I was so concerned about what people around me looked at. She then reflects on the past days when she poured out resentment towards her husband, saying, “I became like this because of you.”
It is said that Dr. Oh surprised the entire counseling center family by completely analyzing the couple’s deep inner self, saying that they were preoccupied with their ‘this’. Kang Won-rae and Kim Song pointed out things to keep in mind when having a conversation, and promised active counseling support even after the broadcast, saying, “If your husband still doesn’t accept the conversation, contact me.”
Meanwhile, Kang Won-rae and Kim Song got married in 2003 and have a son.
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