“If you don’t stay with me,I will kill you and I will kill myself.” Yes a love story between Manuel bortuzzo and Lulù Selassie, born at this time Big Brother VIPturned into a story of obsession and suffering, shortly after the cameras turned off.
The end of the relationship between the Paralympic swimming champion and the influence (who claims to be descended from the Ethiopian emperor Menelik II) shortly after the reality show closed. But Lulù Selassie did not accept him,who imposed a true persecution on his after-effects,becoming progressively more extreme: stalking,incessant messages and promises,even across national borders.
They exchanged declarations of love disruptive threats: the situation worsened over two years, from 2022 to 2024, until Manuel Bortuzzo was forced to go to the authorities. Last summer, by order of the court, the influence was ordered any approach, to implement the electronic bracelet. Lulu Selassie tried to revoke the electronic bracelet,claiming it interfered with her activity as an influencer,but judge Francesca Ciranna rejected the request,which opened the doors to her stalking trial to begin in March.
Before the preliminary hearing scheduled for January 28, Lulù admitted her obsessive behaviors, choosing the abbreviated procedure. A decision that could reduce the sentence, but does not erase the seriousness of the charges.
Investigations revealed the terrible impact the woman’s behavior had on Bortuzzo’s life. The champion,who was the victim of a shot in 2019 that damaged his spinal cord,collapsed due to constant pressure from his ex-girlfriend. a state of anxiety that forces him to change his habits, fear for his safety.
Even blocking the phone number didn’t stop the flow of messages and contact attempts. Among the many reported incidents, the one that happened in a hospital in Latina stands out, were the athlete was hospitalized for checks. The woman allegedly tried to enter the operating room, insulting the doctors and kicked the door in an attempt to get closer to the ex.
In the summer of 2023, Lulu would show up in Manchester, where Bortuzzo was taking part in the world swimming championships, booking a room in the same hotel and leaving messages under his door.A scene that repeated itself over and over again also in Portugalduring the Paralympic World Championships.The story exploded when the influence would be the influence, which was rejected once again entered Bortuzzo’s room and attacked him, punching him in the face. It was the culmination of a spiral of destructive behavior that marked both of them.
What psychological factors contribute to obsessive behavior after a breakup in high-profile relationships?
The dark Side of Fame: An Interview on the Obsession and Stalking Case of Manuel Bortuzzo and Lulù Selassie
Editor: today, we are privileged to speak with Dr. Elena Rossi, a psychologist specializing in the effects of celebrity culture on relationships and mental health. With the unsettling developments surrounding the high-profile relationship between Paralympic swimming champion manuel Bortuzzo and influencer Lulù Selassie, we delve into the implications of such obsessive behavior. Thank you for joining us, Dr. Rossi.
Dr. Rossi: Thank you for having me. It’s a critical discussion that needs to be addressed.
Editor: The relationship between Bortuzzo and Selassie started on a high note within the context of Big Brother VIP but spiraled into serious issues. What do you think led to this intense obsession from Lulù Selassie after their relationship ended?
Dr. Rossi: Relationships in the public eye can frequently enough be tumultuous. In this case,Selassie exhibited what we term “relationship obsession,” where one partner cannot accept the end of a relationship. This often manifests in behaviors such as constant interaction, stalking, and in extreme cases, emotional and physical violence. The public nature of their relationship likely exacerbated these behaviors,creating a distorted sense of reality where she felt entitled to maintain control over Bortuzzo.
Editor: It’s disturbing to hear how the situation escalated. What are some psychological factors that promote such behavior in breakups?
Dr. Rossi: Several factors contribute, including attachment styles and underlying mental health issues. Individuals who struggle with abandonment or have an anxious attachment style are more prone to obsessive behaviors.Additionally, societal pressures and the glamorization of certain relationships in media can create unrealistic expectations. In Selassie’s case, her claims of being a descendant of emperor Menelik II might have heightened her desire for validation, driving her obsessive need for maintaining contact with Bortuzzo.
Editor: The situation reportedly became so severe that Bortuzzo had to seek legal action, which resulted in Selassie being ordered to wear an electronic bracelet. In yoru view, how effective are such legal measures in curbing obsessive behavior?
Dr. Rossi: Legal interventions,such as restraining orders and electronic monitoring,can serve as an important step towards ensuring someone’s safety. However, they only address the symptoms of the behavior, not the underlying psychological issues. Long-term solutions would need to incorporate therapy and mental health support for individuals like Selassie to address the root causes of their actions.
Editor: Manuel Bortuzzo had to change his lifestyle due to the anxiety stemming from this obsession. What advice would you offer to individuals who find themselves in similar situations?
Dr.rossi: The priority should always be personal safety. If anyone feels threatened or stalked, it’s essential to document all interactions and seek help from authorities. Additionally, engaging in therapy can also provide support and coping strategies to deal with the emotional fallout. Establishing strong boundaries and seeking social support from friends and family is vital in reclaiming one’s peace of mind.
Editor: As this case unfolds, what broader implications do you see for the influencer culture and the way it impacts relationships?
Dr. Rossi: The influencer culture frequently enough blurs the line between public persona and private life. it can create a sense of entitlement and possession over relationships. This case is a stark reminder of how critical it is to navigate such dynamics with awareness and caution,not just for influencers but for their partners as well. understanding the pressures of fame could lead to healthier relationships and more informed discussions around mental health.
Editor: Thank you, Dr. Rossi, for your insights and practical advice on such a concerning situation. It’s crucial that we continue to shine a light on the darker side of fame and its implications on mental health.
Dr. Rossi: Thank you for addressing this important issue. Awareness and understanding are the first steps towards prevention.