My husband suddenly wanted to sell the house and move back to his hometown, making me confused and scared

2024-01-16 08:30:00

Hello Huong Duong,

My husband and I are living a very stable life. My husband is the Director of a foreign invested company. I am an accountant. At age 35, we had a house, a car and two children, one 8 years old and one 4 years old. It can be said that our life has nothing to complain about.

Suddenly one day, while watching TV, my husband asked his wife to sell the land, sell the house, go back home to buy land, grow vegetables and raise chickens, and live a peaceful life? I listened to my husband ramble on and make plans for his days in the countryside and was so shocked that my eyes widened.

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So for the past few days, my husband has been discussing about returning to his hometown to live. He said he was bored with the hustle and bustle of life in the city and wanted to enjoy life in his own way. We can’t agree on an opinion, so we’re angry at each other. What should I do to make my husband give up the idea of ​​returning home to live now?

Huong Duong advises.

Maybe your husband wants to change his life in the way he thinks is most worth living for the whole family. And this is not in your expectations, so you cannot accept it. In any case, instead of being angry with each other, Huong Duong hopes that you and your husband will calmly sit together, share, discuss and give direction to the whole family.

First of all, you need to find out if your husband’s work is having any difficulties lately? Why did he come up with the thought of wanting to give up everything to choose a life in the countryside? What plans does he have for the future if the whole family returns to his hometown?

If your husband is determined to start a new life in a peaceful village, you both need to prepare carefully for situations that may arise. For example, the child’s education will be interrupted, it will be difficult for the child to pursue high-quality classes only available in the city, the couple’s work will face many difficulties, and the economic situation will also be affected. It’s more difficult to just “grow vegetables and raise chickens” according to your husband’s wishes. Thus, to be able to return home, you and your husband should prepare both economically and mentally to avoid pressure or conflicts. Unfortunately it can happen.

Hope you and your wife make the final decision soon. Dear.