Marriage in itself is a very responsible word. This is because after getting into this relationship, couples not only have to take care of each other’s happiness but also have to ensure that this relationship does not break due to the mistake of one person. This is because compared to other relationships, this relationship has the most ups and downs. Sometimes even a small mistake becomes the reason for separation.
However, the most important thing during this time is what you are doing to save your relationship. In fact, some couples decide to leave each other only after a little discord, while there are some who, even after going through very bad times in their marriage, did not think it right to leave it. What such people did to save their marriage truly shows the true meaning of marriage. (Photo courtesy: iStock)
we took couples therapy
Maya and Rohan were also one of those couples who felt tension in their relationship after ten years of marriage. In fact, untold resentment had started interfering in our marriage, due to which the fights between us had increased to a great extent. When we felt like our marriage was on the rocks, Maya and I started attending couples therapy to learn how to communicate effectively with each other.
What happened was that we both slowly reconnected. Now we have honest conversations. However, such a miracle did not happen overnight. But our continuous efforts helped us to rediscover the love which was getting lost due to fights.
my wife had an affair
I saw a lot of bad times in my marriage. Actually, my wife was having an affair. In such a situation, when I came to know about this, my whole world was completely destroyed. However, during this time, instead of leaving my wife, I confronted her. Both of us took help from a relationship counselor. My wife also made all honest efforts to make this relationship work. However, it was a painful path. But now everything is fine between us.
Money became the reason for divorce
I was continuously incurring losses in my business, due to which my financial condition completely deteriorated. During this time, due to tension and allegations, my wife and I were on the verge of separation from each other.
However, we talked to each other and decided to work together. Through hard work, willpower and mutual support, both of us not only saved our marriage but also gave the true meaning of partnership. To be honest, we both became closer to each other than before.
My in-laws made life difficult
Everything was going well in our marriage, but because of my in-laws, the misunderstandings between us increased so much that I decided to get out of this marriage. One reason for this was that my husband used to make me feel humiliated in front of my in-laws, which I did not like.
However, as the tension in the marriage increased, we both discussed it with our parents, which helped us realize where we were both making mistakes. By doing this we improved our relationship and today we have started giving priority to our family unit. We both are happier than before.
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