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A groundbreaking ban on social media for those under 16 in Australia has sparked debate across the Tasman Sea, prompting Kiwi teenagers to reflect on what a similar policy would mean for their lives. A recent study of over 1,000 New Zealand teenagers and their caregivers revealed the pervasive nature of these platforms, with 90% of teens currently using social media and 62% having started between the ages of 10 and 13.
The study also highlighted concerns about problematic social media use, finding that 22% of teens exhibited addictive-like behaviors. This raises questions about the potential benefits and harms of early access to these platforms, and whether a ban could be a viable solution.
The Allure and Addiction of the Scroll
For many Kiwi teens, social media isn’t simply a pastime – it’s woven into the fabric of their daily lives. Shubhanyu, a 14-year-old who has been using social media since age 12, describes the ease with which it can consume one’s time. “It doesn’t take much. You just take out your phone, open one app, and you begin to scroll. I do wish I had more self control over my habits,” he admitted.
Despite acknowledging the potential for distraction, Shubhanyu doesn’t believe social media is inherently negative. He emphasizes its ability to democratize access to art, literature, and music. “I see all sorts of young people, especially posting stuff they’re passionate about… they’re showing these beautiful paintings they’ve created or reading poetry,” he explained. However, he also points to a darker side, warning of the spread of misinformation by “grifters, influencers and self-help gurus.” He cited examples of unrealistic expectations promoted online, stating, “Only on social media would you see influencers saying that if you’re 16 years old and not earning about $10,000 every day, you’ve failed in life. It normalises all sorts of toxic standards.”
Despite these concerns, Shubhanyu is hesitant about a complete ban. “I’m not sure if it will play out that well, and I’m not sure if we’re going to be losing the things which we should be losing instead of the things which are actually good about social media.”
A Vital Connection for Some
For others, social media provides a crucial lifeline. Rae, a 14-year-old, views these platforms as integral to modern communication. “It’s the way that we talk to each other, communicate with each other, and it’s really important part of how we stay connected,” she said. As a member of the rainbow community, Rae has found a safe and supportive space online. “It’s helped me connect with other people who are minority or marginalised, like myself, and that’s given me a really good, safe space to achieve my feelings.”
Rae acknowledges the presence of harmful content, stating, “You will see things that you don’t want to see,” but believes the solution lies in equipping young people with the tools to navigate these challenges. “It’s a really important responsibility for parents and schools to cultivate that safety.” She fears a ban would simply drive usage underground. “When we ban social media, we’re encouraging people who are under 16 to access it secretly, and we aren’t cultivating safety and transparency.”
Concerns About Addiction and Well-being
Not all teens share Rae’s perspective. Molly, 11, who uses Kids Messenger, YouTube, and Roblox, enjoys connecting with friends and family online but admits she’d prefer in-person interactions. She describes social media as “quite addictive,” observing that “They’re scrolling on reels, like most time, they can’t really stop. They just keep scrolling on for ages.” While recognizing its educational potential, Molly also acknowledges the risks of exposure to inappropriate content. “Some people can, like, post things that people like shouldn’t watch for their age.”
Molly supports a ban, believing it would promote safety and encourage more time outdoors and a focus on “more important stuff than social media.”
The debate surrounding social media and young people is complex, with no easy answers. As Australia pioneers this bold new approach, New Zealand’s rangatahi are grappling with the potential implications – both positive and negative – of a world without social media access during their formative years.
