2024-05-06 04:10:50
Ole Liebl, since For centuries, monogamous, romantic relationships have been going quite well. Now you’re advocating having sex with our friends. Why?
Why not? “Friendship plus” is often considered non-binding and has a rather negative connotation. I would like to ennoble this relationship as an intimate relationship that is in no way inferior to other friendships in terms of seriousness and depth.
But isn’t a monogamous, romantic relationship particularly beautiful?
This may certainly be true for many people. If people want to have exclusive relationships and make a conscious decision to do so, please. But it’s about a conscious decision and not because you’ve always done it that way. In couples therapy there is the term EFAFI, “one for all forever”. In the imagination one person must act as a figure of salvation for the other everything fulfill. A life long. But who says that a partnership has to completely fulfill all social, emotional and even sexual needs? It can take the pressure off a relationship if it doesn’t all depend on just one person.
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