2024-09-29 19:48:28
Question : ‘I married an army man 5 years ago, we both loved each other very much. I married him even after he suffered from infertility, but he cheated on me many times and did not even take me with him. After waiting for 4 years, when his turn came to leave, he made an excuse to his family and talked about divorce or second marriage. But I am not able to leave him, what should I do?
Getting cheated like this after maintaining a relationship like marriage honestly breaks any person. The problem is more when you do not want to separate, in such a situation Vishal Bhardwaj, Relationship Coach and Founder of Predictions for Success While answering the user’s question, he has also told special things to identify the relationship. (All pictures are indicative, we keep the identity of the users secret in the stories shared)
Identify toxic relationships
First of all you have to understand that you are in a toxic relationship. There is cheating, lack of commitment and no seriousness about feelings in your relationship. Staying in this relationship can cause emotional harm, low self-esteem and may take away your peace. Try to understand your feelings as to why you are not able to leave the relationship. Is it fear, love, or social pressure?
Have open conversations and create boundaries
You should talk openly about this to your husband. Explain to them your feelings and situation. If you decide to live together, set boundaries that take into account your emotional and physical well-being. Tell your husband clearly what will be accepted and what will not.
seek help from people close to you
You should not remain alone in this situation, share your feelings and problems with people close to you. Talk to friends, family, or a counselor about your situation. Sharing your feelings will give you a new path. Keeping yourself close to positive people will give you courage.
Focus on personal development
The best solution to come out of any problem or situation is to remain physically and medically fit. Don’t ignore your physical health, focus on daily exercise and a healthy diet. To maintain mental health, take help of meditation or therapy daily and maintain a good social circle. Also pay attention to your hobbies and career.
Be patient, understand legal matters
It is better to think about fighting a legal battle than suffering the pain. You can think about your rights and divorce options after taking suggestions from a lawyer. An expert can understand your situation better and give the right advice. In this situation you will need to be patient, remember that life does not end when a relationship ends.
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