2024-03-01 03:11:48
When the son grows up, he has his own choices and ideas and in such a situation, ideological differences between father and son are natural. There is a difference between the thinking of the older generation and the thinking and mannerisms of the children of the new modern era, due to which differences often arise between father and son.
Motivational speaker Sadhguru told why the relationship between father and son stops after a certain age and what should be done in this situation? If you are also a father and you do not get along with your son or you want to keep your relationship with your son positive, then definitely pay attention to these things told by Sadhguru.
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Karan Johar asked a question
On a show, Karan Johar asked Sadhguru that why does a situation of tension arise between father and son after a certain age and what is the reason for the distance between them? Know what Sadhguru said on this question.
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It’s not about father and son
Sadhguru said that this is not a matter of father and son. The point here is of two people living in the same house. According to Sadhguru, when two people live in the same house, differences of opinion are bound to arise between them. Sadhguru himself has admitted that it is a bit difficult for two people to live in the same house.
father is god
Sadhguru said that when boys are 9 to 10 years old, for them their father is no less than a God. They fulfill every need of their child and take care of him. But when you are 15 to 16 years old, then problems start. At this age, the child’s own thinking and ideology starts developing and he feels a little uncomfortable in accepting the ideas of others.
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need more space
Here, the child wants to follow his own ideas but it becomes a bit difficult for the son to accept the person who is already dominant in his family. In such a situation, discord begins to arise between the two. Both of them feel that I should be the one in the house or this is my place. This is not a fight between father and son but between two men.
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trying to divide woman
Regarding the father-son relationship, Sadhguru says that this fight is an attempt to separate two men from living in one place and one woman. This woman is the wife of one and mother of the other. It is very normal for all this to happen between two people and you can also call it an ego clash between the two.