2023-06-15 08:20:00
My father passed away when I was young, so I matured before my time. Looking at my mother struggling to raise two sisters to study, I felt sorry for her very much, and promised myself in the future to try really hard to let her enjoy a peaceful and happy life.
Later, when I went to the city to go to university, I studied and worked hard to earn money to send back to my hometown for my sister to go to school. Although I work part-time, I never neglect my studies, so my results are very good.
Graduated with an excellent degree and rich work experience, it’s not too difficult for me to get a job with wage generously. Not to brag, but my family, from the poorest of them to now, is also in the second-richest form compared to other houses in them.
On my mother, there was an uncle, who gave birth to two children, a girl and a boy. Her house is right next to mine, her cousin is only one year older than me, so she was young two sisters quite friendly. She is 31 years old and has been married for 6 years. His brother-in-law works as a driver with a salary of around 12 million and the two have 3 children together. Cousin for 4 years now because she stayed at home to take care of small children, can’t work, so she has no salary, a family of 5 mouths just depends on each other’s salary. brother-in-law.
Because of lack of money, my cousin often asked me to borrow money. Initially, out of love, as sisters who played together since childhood, I did not calculate, she asked for a loan, I told her to buy 2-3 million for baby diapers. But my cousin got a job in the country, the frequency of asking for a loan is increasing, asking once every 1-2 weeks makes me angry, at this situation, even if I make gold and silver, it will not be enough for a loan.
Yesterday when I came home to visit her, she came over again and told her that she was pregnant and asked to borrow money from me:
– I don’t have money to lend you some to go to the antenatal clinic. Cu Dat is also about to enter 1st grade, has to buy books, and the children also have to pay tuition. She had no money left in her body, and her brother-in-law had not yet received the amount.
I widened my eyes in surprise when my cousin informed me of my fourth pregnancy. Angry, I shouted:
– Are you the money tree of my sister’s house, but every few meals and half a month, I ask for a loan? How much have you borrowed and have you paid me yet? Right from when I gave birth to the second child, I told her, if the economy is not there, the plan, the couple tries to accumulate money later, then have more children, but she did not listen.
The family is poor, but why are you giving birth so much, can’t you raise it? I don’t understand what you guys think. Having children is responsible for them, right? Now it’s not like in the old days that people say that elephants give birth to grass.
Being blamed, my cousin immediately yelled at me:
– So now if you get pregnant, why don’t you quit? Why are you so cruel? I have a little money to make myself proud, so I don’t want it, I thought it was good to have a few silver coins. It’s okay to earn a lot of money, the first 30 years old is still sluggish. Once he brought a boyfriend home, he didn’t even bother to bring it. Take a look at yourself first before teaching others’ lives.
After saying that, she stammered and left. I don’t know what I said wrong, or I ran out of ships and brought all the debt to claim one, but 4 years, you owe me more than 200 million, not less. Having kindly advised, lending money is still being teased like this.
As for my love story, what do you know to judge? It is true that I used to introduce my boyfriend to my house and thought about marrying him for real. But later I found out that he has a lower salary than me, but he does not have the will to progress and is satisfied with life. Seeing the two different views on life, thinking that I deserve a better husband, I broke up.
Marriage is a lifelong affair, why rush, run with age. If I get married but only stay at home to eat and give birth, if I don’t have an economy like my cousin, I don’t need it.
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