In this time of the year we are in, the sun is mixed with the mist of cases. In the same abundance, the judges are scratching their heads in search of those who will help them. “WhatsApp” groups of committee members are popping up like rain in the phones of many. However, in the formation of groups, it seems that there is something else that is driving us behind which our writer criticizes.
Since this did not happen, it has been added to the “WhatsApp” group of the members of the committees that organize the marriage and divorce cases. If I didn’t know the technology that Whatsapp offers us to prevent people from putting me in groups without my permission, I would have been put in more than the number I told them. I don’t even approve of strangers.
Every time, I get into that trap, and I rush to see who we are with as equals. Where are you 70, 80, 100,…. Then I found out that we are a committee of 174 people. I fell in line. Did all of them really like to worry about the case of the person who put them in the committee? What makes me think so, is that a number of people who have joined me after two or more years without talking to each other before seeing each other, ask for my number when there is a case.
Listen…everyone
The team is in charge, people have just finished beating him. A pause followed. Sometimes, the administrator (admin) comes and includes a message to remind the case. But it always makes me suspicious, that message is always accompanied by a list of those who have agreed to pay the deposit. On these lists, there is a name and the amount each person has pledged to donate. That’s when you see that the committee is made up of people who are not there to train them to contribute, a trip that doesn’t suit me at all.
Starting a list is always a challenge. The one with the least should ask first and see what others have to offer. When the one who has more sees that others are giving less, he also gives less. There is a lot of struggle, and one no longer gives according to one’s heart, or according to one’s pocket money. Should there have been a list of those who were giving and a record of the amount they had committed? Does it not lead to those who give not because they want to, but because they refuse to be ashamed of those who look up to them?
It’s traditional, but …
It’s been that way since ancient times, the Burundians have always been characterized by supporting each other, supporting each other in times of different cases. At the top, those who married sent the case to their neighbors, friends and acquaintances. You are the ones who deliver baskets, go to the hospital, and others also deliver envelopes. But what they give is very interesting, and the envelope is wrapped in a great secret. Don’t worry, this trip to speak loudly about what you have left is not something that is in the nature of Burundians. Then, the grandparents said: “A man (Umurundi) hides his name without his name”.
Here I ask myself : “When the act of commitment takes place in the “WhatsApp” group, don’t you make some providers who don’t like it? » Another surprising thing is how those included include those who have been judged. The hundred or so people on the trial committee obviously didn’t care. There are even ǃ I have a suspicion that there are people who do it just to look for a way.
Whatsapp groups exist to facilitate communication about the progress of the trial. It’s a practical thing. But when it comes to casting it can be done differently. In my opinion, we should have separated things. The committee that comes with the aim of helping does not become a punishment for donations, even if they come to give head and hands.
Participation in such matters should be completely confidential and voluntary. After the owner reports the case to those he wants to represent him, they help him. The rest, the one who decided to throw him reached him in the rabbit. Thus, what the right hand gives to the left does not take a click.
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2024-08-24 11:42:03