2023-04-21 06:43:00
Life has many difficulties, but at the critical moment, many women realize that they cannot rely on their husbands, they have husbands but live like a widow.
Mr. Bang Bang and Ms. Tue Tue (living in Thuong Khau, Ha Nam province, China) have been married for 10 years, have 3 children together, but now the wife has rushed back to her mother’s house and demanded a divorce. with husband. “I should have divorced him a long time ago, not now. I’ve had enough of him.” Tue Tue said angrily.
“I’ve been married to him for 10 years but I hardly spent a dime from him. He and I have 3 children together, but he has never fulfilled his responsibilities as a father even for a single day, all of which are borne by me alone.
When I was 6-7 months pregnant, my belly was bigger than I still had to sell goods at the market. I sacrificed a lot for this house but in return I got nothing. Many times when I feel sorry for myself, I have to run to the back of the house to cry to my satisfaction, then wipe my tears and return to feed my children.”Tue said chokingly.
Tue Tue reminisced about his marriage.
Tue Tue’s father added that the son-in-law is an irresponsible man who gathers all day to drink with “social people”. Those people are all without a decent job, are lazy people and have no responsibility to their families.
Hearing this, Mr. Bang Bang quickly explained. He said he still earns more than 4,000 yuan (nearly 14 million dong) every month, but he doesn’t give it to his wife. Basically, all expenses in the house are borne by the wife. His wife also knows that he often goes out to drink with his brothers and comes back very late, but the couple has never quarreled because of this.
But it’s not that Tue Tue didn’t say it, but she was too depressed to see her husband like that. Frustration accumulates in the heart little by little and then when it only takes a small incident, it seems to spark a big explosion. “If my husband had worked a little harder, my children and I wouldn’t have suffered like this. But he’s like a kid who won’t grow up.” Tue Tue said.
However, Bang Bang’s mother still defends her son. She admitted that her daughter-in-law has helped the family in the business, the job is getting better and better, but her son is also not an idle person. Bang Bang also runs a business, but it’s just that he doesn’t earn any money.
Bang Bang’s mother defended her son, making many people bored.
The mediator explained that when women get married, they expect their husbands to share and shoulder the responsibility with them. The most important thing to them is the husband’s concern for him and his children, not how much money he brings home.
Faced with the mediator’s interrogation, Bang Bang’s mother remained silent and could not refute anything. But after thinking for a while, she said that two years ago her son was in a car accident and was injured somewhere, leaving sequelae, so she asked her daughter-in-law to sympathize with her husband. In general, she did not think that the marriage of the two children broke down because of her son, but instead accused her daughter-in-law of having a change of heart when she learned that her husband was in debt outside.
Talking about this, Tue Tue became even more angry. She said that she was always beside the hospital bed to take care of him, even if he was paralyzed in one place, she would not abandon him. But fortunately his condition was not to that extent.
However, Bang Bang not only could not shoulder the family responsibilities that he should have taken on, on the contrary, he also borrowed heavily from outside. Because he could not pay the debt, he returned home and forced his wife to help him pay the debt. This made Tue Tue surprised because she did not know when her husband borrowed money, for what purpose.
Talking about the debt, Bang Bang explained, he initially borrowed 30,000 yuan (more than 100 million VND) to buy a truck to carry goods to earn money and then gradually pay the other debt. But when he got the money, he didn’t want to buy a car anymore but poured into business investment and then invited friends to eat and drink all the money.
Although clearly wrong, Bang Bang still spoke in a very confident tone, did not feel sorry for his wife, but instead blamed his wife for not complaining about this, making everyone bored. “You should grow up, if you live without responsibility like this, when will life get better? He is sick, is the youngest child in the family, parents and sisters who spoil you can all understand. But now that I’m a father of 3, I should have grown up. Taking care of children is your responsibility”, the mediator told Bang Bang.
Tue Tue said that her husband never grew up, but she still gave him a chance to change.
Hearing the mediator scold her son, Bang Bang’s mother could not help but speak up to defend her son. After a while of persuasion, Bang Bang’s mother realized that if she let her son play like that, it was harming him, because no matter how parents help and support, they can’t live with their son forever. when they have to leave.
After that, the mediator continued to convince Bang Bang to change to have a better life and preserve family happiness. Encouraged and advised by everyone, Bang Bang plucked up the courage to apologize to his wife and parents-in-law, begging them to give him one more chance to change and start over.
Thinking of 3 small children, Tue Tue softened her heart to give her husband a chance, but it is not clear if her husband can change or not, where this marriage will go.
To have a happy family, one person’s efforts are never enough. Just think, if one person builds and the other destroys, will the house still be a house? Being a husband and wife, as a parent, requires both of them to be responsible for their own home, otherwise it will hurt the other party, the daughter and make the parents of both sides sad, not to mention. This will cause the marriage to gradually break down and fall apart.
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