2024-09-16 14:00:52
Sexting is one of the cybersex activities that you can make the most of with your partner from a distance. We tell you “tips” to do it in a fun and safe way.
Last update: September 16, 2024
Before, if you were in a long distance relationship, you could communicate with your partner only through letters, which took months to arrive. Nowadays, thanks to the internet, it is possible to talk to and see your half, in real time, through the screens of your mobile phone or PC.
And not all technology can help you with: it also It is a way to have “intimate” encounters with your partner, no matter how many kilometers away between you. Are you wondering how to practice remote sex in these lines we will tell you which choice is the best, what you can do in them, safety tips and more.
Communication, the key is remote sex
The first step to practicing cybersex—and in general, having a successful long-term relationship—is good communication. Be open and honest about what remote sex options you would like to try.what they are willing to do and what they do not, as well as the frequency of these intimate encounters. The idea is that they are comfortable and it is encouraging for both.
Another point has to do with scheduling and availability. Choose a time that suits both of you and where you are not limited by time. You don’t want to make a provocative video call to your partner if they’re in a work meeting, right?
It is also important that they commit to doing what they do.. For example, if you agree to have sex on the phone at night and you forget, he will feel that you do not attach importance to the relationship. This will create tension between you, and being at a distance is more difficult to resolve.
What cybersex practices can you use?
Now that your limits and preferences have been established, it’s time for us to move on to how to practice remote sex as such. While it is true that there are many other ways to do this work (such as sexual conversations or online groups), we think that the best ones to do with your partner are as follows.
1. Sexting
The word may seem strange to you, but we are sure that its meaning will not be. Him sexting It is a form of virtual sex where messages and pictures with sexual content are exchanged. We will also send them clips of audio books and short videos to this list.
To do it, you only need your mobile phone, creativity and motivation.. And there is no formula to follow. For example, you can start by sending your partner a message about what they find most stimulating, or what you would like them to do to you on your next in-person meeting.
This can lead to a heated conversation between you, which will make you cry and moan with pleasure. In fact, you can send them to him as voice notes, which will ignite his passion.
Now, if songs aren’t your thing, Another option is to send her a motivational photo that part of you that, you know, you really like. It can also be one of the underwear that you will want to wear in front of him.
Even if you feel safe and comfortable, try to post it naked is a very encouraging stop, which reminds you of what is waiting for you at home. Without a doubt, it will raise your libido and let your imagination fly.
2. phone sex
Another alternative to remote sexting is through traditional phone calls. You just have to mark your love and tell him, in the most detailed way possible, what arousing fantasy you have and how you want to make it come true with him.
Don’t forget to use something passionate and sensual when you do it, since he can’t look at you, your voice and your imagination will be what you are passionate about.
He should also be reminded—in a casual way—of a sexual relationship that is enjoyable for both of you. The key is to be clear and not leave anything out. For example, how he took off his clothes, what kind of kiss he gave you, how hot he felt, you can even add original things to that story. Remember it will be very interesting.
3. Video calls
They can consider the next step to phone sex. Unlike before, here both will be seen and it is something that can take a lot of use. One way to impress your partner from afar is by putting on your best sexy lingerie, touching yourself and taking off.how do you want me to do it.
The next thing is to have sex and have your partner watch you while you do it.. Don’t be self-conscious and complain or cry if you feel like it. Then, it will be their turn to enjoy themselves in front of the camera and yours to be noticed.
Remember we created the perfect background to give you a great boost to the sessions. To do this, you can use soft music and — please — move any clutter in the room or move it away from the camera.
Promotional toys: yes or no?
On the right side of the man playing Max 2 Lovessencecontrolled by app. On the left, the hobby set Onix and dildos Fuse connected to Kiroo.
There are couples who are hesitant about incorporating sex toys into their intimate encounters. It is our humble opinion that, in a long distance relationship, They can be a good tool to take the experience to the next level.
Let’s go back to the promotional video call situation described earlier. If the couple is energetic or playful, the meeting will have a more “real” atmosphere. And with its help it can be a little easier to imagine the touch of your better half.
Now, the market for stimulation toys to help them reach orgasm has grown a lot. Currently, you can find models with an internet connection to bless your sexual encounters.
For example, brand Kiroo offers toys that connect to the network and to each other, to offer a simultaneous experience. There are others who sync to it app mobile phone (for example, Love), so that your partner can control them remotely during their sex sessions online.
About this, an article in the magazine Science and Engineering Ethics Note that such toys change the remote experience with loved ones and provide a new level of intimacy.
There are even options to practice kissing. While it’s true that they won’t be able to recreate the French kiss you love from your love, the toy (A pillow case) will compare your partner’s intensity and lip movements.
How to practice remote sex safely?
A very important point when having cybersex is trust and discretion. that your partner will not post photos and content they share. Ideally, when you practice with your partner, this trust should already exist.
However, it may happen that one of you is a victim of theft or a the hacker and lose those contents. Even, they can be exposed or suffer in silence from malicious third parties. Therefore, there is a set of safety measures that must be taken to avoid intimate encounters online is safe. Some are:
- Automatically turn off cloud storage while having remote sex.
- Analyze your devices (mobile, tablet or PC) for any viruses or spyware that can be hidden.
- Set passwords to access your devices. It is important that this is not something simple, like 1234 or 0000. Also, try to make it different for each group.
- Avoid taking photos where your face is clearly visible, as well as important identifying features, such as tattoos or birthmarks.
- Take care of the background. By this we mean that they don’t take a promotional photo or video where the background is something that is easy to identify them. For example, their office where they have their grades and courses posted on the wall.
- go spare parts to have sexting that deletes or destroys messages and files after a while. As pointed out by the Guest FoundationSignal or Telegram are alternatives. In fact, the latter has a private chat option in which they cannot take screenshots or forward messages. If they go through WhatsApp, they can activate temporary messaging systems.
What benefits does long distance sex bring to the relationship?
Whether The biggest benefit that online sex activities can bring to your relationship is to increase your sexual satisfaction. which is affected by the kilometers between you. For example, an article from Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality point out that the higher the frequency of sexting In couples, the highest level of sexual satisfaction and communication.
Likewise, a publication of the University of North Florida indicate more benefits that sexual activities can bring online – as it is sexting-, to committed relations. It’s not like couples in the same situation, who don’t put them out. Among them are:
- Bring newness to the relationship.
- Reduce fear and anxiety when talking about sex.
- Encouragement for the growth of romantic relationships.
- Increases intimate communication between a couple at a distance.
- Avoid the risk of an unplanned pregnancy or contracting an STD.
- Help partners discover their sexuality and empower each other.
- It acts as a substitute for sex in relationships that cannot be intimate due to religious or physical health issues.
Besides cybersex, surprise your partner with…
Remote sex is a fun activity that will help you experience pleasure and intimacy, even if you are not in the same room. But, you should know that there are other simple ways to keep the relationship alive, which is worth doing.
You can go on a date with him or her. How? Meet at the same time to eat and talk on a video call. Another option is to watch a series or movie together: to do this you can download it app which will allow them to view them in real time and comment on them.
The first thing is to have frequent communication with your better half.. It is in your daily life and remember that love is like a plant: you must take care of it and maintain it so that it can be strong and beautiful.
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