We were all tense on Shabbat evening, struggling to hide our excitement, for the decision of Ben and Mein from “Wedding at First Sight” regarding their future as a couple. The answer was not long in coming, and after promising to continue and try to maintain the relationship after the filming, this challenge lasted exactly one month, after which they parted even though the odds were in their favor.
Estha Brodetsky-Kaufman, an expert on dating and creating relationships, spoke to Iris Cole 103FM and summed up the season full of ups and downs that passed us by: “As we bet throughout the season, the couple that came without complications, and not just because he was with the dreams, is the couple who said that if he gets so and so He falls in love, and that’s what happened. For most people, the story of the first few minutes when we look at someone, it’s a very critical story. All the studies prove that once we allow the interaction to happen, there can be attraction and love.”
“There is a type, and Guy’s specific type reminds me of Ben’s specific type emotionally,” she added. “This is something broadly called ‘insecure attachment’ – usually the way we form an attachment with someone who took care of us at a young age will return. This is what we see in them, because many times when we are terribly afraid to be in a relationship, we have a very difficult experience inside of us of what It’s being in intimacy.”
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At the end, Brodetsky-Kaufman emphasized: “Ben shot himself in the foot, because he was thinking ahead, what he felt at that moment was not enough. It is very possible that if Ben had done such a trick to another girl, she would have said that this speech was not appropriate for her. In that case, She would bring something else out of a son. Endless marriage is only for two-year-old babies. When someone loves you the way you want to be loved, it goes both ways.”
Assisted in the preparation of the article: Michal Kadosh