Ditch the Dinner Delay: Why L.A. Restaurants should Welcome Little Ones
The conventional wisdom dictates waiting until age four or five to bring children to restaurants, especially in a bustling city like Los Angeles.But a growing number of parents-and one former line cook-are challenging that notion, arguing that excluding young families diminishes the community spirit at the heart of the dining experience.
For many, restaurants are more then just places to eat; they’re spaces for connection and belonging. As one parent shared, “I wanted to challenge that [idea of waiting]. My son is three and on the spectrum, wich means our adventures come with a few extra layers of sensory input, but I wasn’t ready to give up the magic of dining out.” This sentiment echoes a longing for the shared experiences of childhood, recalling memories of family meals and a sense of inclusion. “Some of my favorite childhood memories were made in restaurants,” the parent continued, describing family trips to an all-you-can-eat buffet in Palmdale. “Restaurants made me feel like I belonged, part of the table, part of the conversation.”
While Los Angeles differs from smaller towns like Palmdale, with its endless parking lots and chain restaurants, the core value of community remains. When families feel unwelcome, or simply choose to stay home, a piece of that communal fabric is lost. Dining out, this parent argues, isn’t about perfection, but about participation. It’s a space for children to learn and observe, and denying them that experience risks losing the “messy, joyful humanity that makes sharing a meal special.”
Here are a few Los Angeles spots embracing that beliefs and welcoming families with open arms:
Casual Eats for Every Family
Holbox (Los Angeles)
Holbox offers some of L.A.’s best tacos in a toddler-friendly environment. Go early to avoid the longest lines, and take advantage of the high chairs, changing table, and exceptionally fast service. With chips and salsa for just $1 and rice and beans for $4, it’s a budget-friendly option for little ones. While there are no booths, the indoor and outdoor seating, particularly the picnic tables, provide a relaxed atmosphere. https://www.instagram.com/holboxla/ A visit to nearby Komal for pan de elote is highly recommended. 3655 S. Grand Ave. c9, Los Angeles, CA 90007
Belle’s Delicatessen (Highland park)
belle’s nails the “new meets old-school” diner vibe, offering booths, table service, high chairs, and self-serve water. The younger crowd and friendly staff create a fun energy, and a changing table and kids’ menu are available. the restaurant even proudly displays a photo of a local little league team they’ve supported, demonstrating a commitment to future generations. 557 N. Highland Ave. Los Angeles, CA 90033
Musso & Frank Grill (Hollywood)
Don’t let the historic charm fool you-Musso’s is surprisingly family-friendly. Booths can often be reserved. The lively atmosphere ensures that a little noise goes unnoticed. One parent even shared a story of their son dressing up as a Musso’s waiter for Halloween, with the entire staff joining in the fun. 6667 Hollywood Blvd. Hollywood, CA 90028
Smoke House (Burbank)
The cozy atmosphere and big red booths-especially near the Bing Crosby poster-make Smoke house a family favorite.The kids’ menu is reasonably priced, and high chairs and changing tables are available. 4420 Lakeside Dr. Burbank, CA 91505
Ultimately, the argument for bringing children to restaurants isn’t about finding the perfect spot, but about fostering a sense of community and inclusion. It’s about allowing children to participate in the shared experience of a meal,and recognizing that a little messiness is a small price to pay for creating lasting memories.
