2023-12-07 09:10:00
December 7, 2023 11:10
The desire to propose and live with a person for the rest of your life is in itself a sign of readiness to get married, but this alone is not enough for family life, say psychotherapist Nathaniel Karela and psychologist Stan Tatkin. They told Men’s Health magazine how to determine that the decision to get married was not hasty, Day.Az reports with reference to Lenta.ru.
Karela emphasized that the desire to start a family is not enough; you need to be ready for partnership and compromise. “It’s easy to say, ‘I want this.’ But it’s important to recognize what you can offer your partner. Maybe you bring education, culture, money, or perhaps your contribution is humor, patience and the ability to follow a plan?” – noted the psychotherapist. He advised not only to know yourself and accurately understand your role in the future family, but also to make sure that your partner values these very qualities.
The specialist also emphasized that before getting married, it is important to get to know each other from different sides, including negative ones. At the same time, Karela said that a sign of a happy marriage is the presence of common plans and beliefs about finances, children and lifestyle. The psychotherapist warned that there is no need to propose if the couple has never discussed marriage and a future together.
Tatkin added that marriage should be postponed if the partners started a relationship recently, often quarrel, or their relationship is not approved by the environment. Also, in his opinion, it is worth alarming if a feeling of anxiety or duress arises in the presence of a partner.
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