(Web Desk) The well-known stage actress, dancer and beautician Didar has revealed the double standards of the society and said that women in the showbiz industry are not accepted here, but women wear similar dresses in private events.
Recently, the famous actress participated as a guest in a private TV program where she talked about the double standards of the society and said that if we look at the culture of Pakistan and India, they do not have a relationship who cannot dance and sing. And the one who comes here to dance and sing does not have a relationship.
Didar revealed that she did not want to be a part of showbiz and theater industry, had no intention and passion, did not know how to dance but mother and elder sister Nargis asked her to become a dancer, on which she first learned dance and then joined the industry. And now love the industry.
The actress said that acting, dance, stage, music and plays will never be accepted in our society, but dance competitions are specially organized in house weddings, male dancers are invited from whom the women of the house learn dance. All the men of the house dance with the women, short dresses are accepted in house weddings but the dancer is never accepted.
Interview with Didar: Exposing the Double Standards in the Showbiz Industry
Editor of Time.news (ET): Welcome, Didar! It’s a pleasure to have you with us today to discuss the pressing issues surrounding the double standards faced by women in the showbiz industry. Your insights are invaluable, especially given your unique experiences as a stage actress and dancer.
Didar (D): Thank you for having me. I’m excited to share my thoughts on this very relevant topic.
ET: You recently spoke out about how women in the showbiz industry are viewed differently compared to women at private events. Can you elaborate on this double standard?
D: Absolutely. In our society, especially within the cultures of Pakistan and India, there’s a stark contradiction. Women are often rejected in the public light for dancing or performing while, paradoxically, similar activities are accepted during private events. At weddings, for instance, dance competitions are held, male dancers are invited, and everyone joins in, yet performers like myself often face judgment in broader social settings.
ET: That’s a fascinating observation. You also mentioned that you initially had no desire to enter showbiz. Can you tell us about that transition?
D: Yes, it’s quite a journey. Initially, I did not want to join the theater and dance industry. My mother and elder sister, Nargis, encouraged me to learn dance, which I eventually did. Over time, I discovered a profound love for the art. Yet, it’s important to express that this journey is not without its societal challenges.
ET: Your perspective sheds light on the complexities of working in an industry that is not fully accepted by society. What do you see as key issues in this regard?
D: The main issue revolves around acceptance. Although dance and acting are forms of art, they are still viewed through a conservative lens. Events that promote dance and music are often hidden behind closed doors—despite being enjoyed in privacy, the artists remain overlooked. Women are often celebrated in those contexts but remain disregarded publicly. This hypocrisy fuels the societal stigma surrounding performers.
ET: What advice would you give to aspiring artists who may be hesitant to pursue their passions due to societal pressures?
D: I would encourage them to embrace their talent wholeheartedly, regardless of societal views. The journey may be tough, but finding the courage to follow your passion can lead to fulfillment. Surround yourself with supportive people who uplift you. Change often starts with those brave enough to defy societal norms.
ET: That’s inspiring! do you believe change is possible in how society views women in the showbiz industry?
D: I do believe change is possible, albeit slowly. The more conversations we have about these double standards, the more awareness we create. As women continue to assert themselves in the industry, perceptions will gradually evolve. Ultimately, it’s about breaking barriers and redefining what’s acceptable within our culture.
ET: Thank you so much, Didar, for sharing your experiences and insights with us. Your willingness to confront these challenges is commendable and can guide others in the industry.
D: Thank you for having me. It’s essential we continue to speak about these issues to foster understanding and acceptance.
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