From Moldova to Massachusetts: Dental Student Balances Motherhood and Advanced Studies at Boston University
A new installment of the “Tooth Talk” Q&A series at Boston University’s Goldman School of Dental Medicine (GSDM) highlights the remarkable journey of Rodica Grosu, a Doctor of Dental Medicine (DMD) candidate, Class of 2026, as she navigates rigorous academic pursuits alongside the demands of new motherhood. Grosu’s story, originating from Moldova and unfolding in Massachusetts, offers a compelling look at resilience, determination, and the supportive community at GSDM.
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A Childhood Inspiration
Grosu’s aspiration to become a dentist was sparked by a simple yet powerful message she encountered as a child in her home country of Moldova. “I went to her office and I saw a quote in the waiting area that said something like, ‘I make people smile,’” she recalled. This resonated deeply, leading her to inquire about the source of such joy. A dentist explained that alleviating pain and restoring teeth builds confidence and brings smiles to patients’ faces. “I went home and thought about what the dentist said. I told my mom that I wanted to make people smile,” Grosu shared, acknowledging that her mother recognized the challenging path ahead but pledged her unwavering support.
Early Dental Education in Moldova
Grosu’s initial dental education took place in Moldova, a short distance from her hometown. While initially daunting to be away from family, she quickly found her footing. “It wasn’t just school; it was a university with lots of subject exams,” she explained. However, the intensive program solidified her passion, particularly when she began working with real patients in her third year. “My first patient was my mom, and I knew it was right for me to stay and study.”
A Transcontinental Journey to GSDM
Following her initial dental studies, Grosu completed a three-year general dentistry residency and then practiced in Bucharest, Romania, for five years. A personal health challenge – dental pain that led her to a Russian dentist – unexpectedly opened a door to pursuing advanced training in the United States. This dentist informed her about limited licenses and advanced standing programs.
Grosu subsequently worked under a limited license at the Harbor Health Community Center on Cape Cod for four years. While she hadn’t fully settled on the U.S. as her permanent home, meeting her husband changed her perspective. With his encouragement, she passed the dental boards and set her sights on Boston University. “Boston University was my first choice because I have a lot of friends from Romania and Moldova who graduated from Boston University, and I saw their successful paths,” she stated. She had consistently heard positive feedback about the program’s quality and the supportive faculty.
Balancing Motherhood and Dental School
Grosu’s journey took an unexpected turn shortly after beginning her studies at GSDM. She delivered her baby girl in August 2024, just two weeks into the program, requiring a C-section. Despite the challenges, she returned to school after only five days. “It was challenging and it’s still challenging,” she admitted, noting her daughter’s frequent nighttime awakenings. However, Grosu remains steadfast in her commitment. “But, when you have a goal and a good dream, you just do it because you see the light at the end of the tunnel. You’re doing it for your family and the future of your child.”
Patient Care and Support at GSDM
Currently working in the Patient Treatment Center, Grosu feels well-prepared to provide care. “It’s nice because I have some practice. I’m not scared of doing things because I know how to approach patients,” she said. She also appreciates the support system in place. “Having the support of our group practice leaders is a big help. If you are unsure about something, you can ask your group practice leader and they’ll guide you.”
A Matriculation Ambassador’s Perspective
Grosu’s commitment to supporting her peers led her to serve as a 2025 matriculation ambassador. She recalled her own anxieties during matriculation week while pregnant and the reassurance she received from a fellow ambassador. “They told me to do my best and if I need help, ask because everyone is willing to help and give you a head if you need it,” she remembered. Inspired by this experience, she sought to provide the same support to incoming students.
A Positive GSDM Experience
Grosu describes her overall experience at GSDM as overwhelmingly positive. “I can’t say I have had a bad experience here. Everyone is nice. The professors are nice every time I ask for help,” she shared. She also highlighted the strong sense of community among her classmates, with frequent social gatherings and celebrations. “It’s a challenging program, but it’s fun. It’s nice to be a student again because you feel young again.”
Advice for Aspiring Dentists
For pre-dental students and international dentists hoping to practice in the U.S., Grosu offers a simple yet powerful message: “Don’t give up your dream. This is big, because if you have a dream, if you have a goal, nothing can stay in your way. You move mountains to reach your goal. Be supportive, and be friendly with people around you.”
This Q&A was conducted by Rachel Grace Philipson.
