Someone has rightly said that marriage is a very special moment not only for the boy and the girl but also for their families, who leave no stone unturned to make it grand. On one hand, the girl’s parents go into debt to please their in-laws, while on the other hand, the boy’s parents do not skimp on anything to bring their daughter-in-law home.
Yes, it is a different matter that one has to have utmost patience in both getting married and getting it done. This is because relationships are very delicate during this time. Many times the mind is filled with countless emotions and useless thoughts. In such a situation, if any complaint is received from the boy’s side, then the tension of the girl’s family increases amidst a thousand things.
It would not be wrong to say that it is the responsibility of the boy’s mother to take care of these things. But sometimes even after everything goes well, they do not like things, due to which the relationship between the two gets spoiled even before it is formed and these things add fuel to the fire. (All photos – iStock)
The arrangement would be good, wouldn’t it?
It has been seen many times that boys’ families embarrass girls’ families by asking how their arrangements will be. He often keeps asking whether the arrangement would be good, right? Will our wedding guests have less food to eat? Will you mix it properly?
However, they should understand that a father spends more than his means on his daughter’s marriage. He never wants there to be any flaw in his daughter’s marriage. In such a situation, if you ask them this question again and again, the relationship will deteriorate even before it can be built.
What are you giving in your luggage?
When a father sends his daughter away from home, he tries his best to give her everything that she will need in her life. Yes, many times it happens that due to lack of money he is not able to give that much charity. In such a situation, do not embarrass the girl’s family by repeatedly asking for the list of items.
send the girl after teaching her everything
As soon as the marriage is finalized, the process of socializing and talking on phone starts between the two families. In such a situation, never repeatedly tell the girl’s mother to send her daughter after teaching her everything. This is because they may feel bad if you say this.
They know very well what their daughter knows and what not. She knows how she can adjust to the new house. In such a situation, if you repeatedly make them feel that they do not know anything, then they will not like it.
This is how we married our daughter.
Even before the marriage ceremony takes place, many such rituals take place when gifts etc. are given to the groom’s family. In such a situation, if you start telling stories about your daughter’s marriage to your wife, she will not like it. He will feel that you are not telling him clearly what you want in this marriage.