SumBigg Boss season 5 is going ahead with a lot of episodes. Each and every contestant is giving great performances. Just like the previous seasons, this time too there is a life story of the BB Housemates. Many have openly shared all the hardships they have faced in their lives. Others kept many inside. Gopika is telling her life today. Gopika opens up about her own family and how she had to leave her husband.
These are the words of Gopika
I was born in Adimali. My family is my father, mother and two brothers. We had a lot of land and pepper cultivation. We had a leasing system. The father has to play cards and drink toddy, and without caring about his children, he rents it all at once. He used to take that money and drink and then go to someone’s house and start a fight. Once a problem was created like this, it turned into a big problem. When everyone came home, my father was not there. They quarreled saying that father was going like this because mother was not looking. After they left, mother and father quarreled. The elder brother is in the house (the second one is in the hostel). On that day, my mother took me and went to my mother’s house. The people there took 100 rupees and told them to go anywhere. He said that it would be a shame for us to stay at home. On that day, my mother came down with me. Reached Thodupuzha. We lived later. There too my father came and created a commotion and we left from there. That’s when a stepfather comes into our lives. I believe he is my real father. My wish was to join the army. That’s when my husband comes and tells me that he loves me. So my marriage ended at the age of 19. At that time, when he was told that he should pass the physical in the army, he did not agree. From the day after the wedding, I see a different person. It started hurting me on the second day. By the second month I was pregnant. I decided not to live in my house for six and a half months. I hated myself. I hit my stomach. Thinking that you are dead. Then, when I was about to take the poison and drink it, my arrow gave me the first stab in the stomach. It will be in the form of Lamamma. That day I decided that I want my Koch and live for him. In the ninth month, the mother comes to know about the problems at home. One day my mother saw my brother beating me. He was released. After giving birth, there was a problem between mother and mother-in-law. Cochin’s twenty-eight is over. Again I went with him. Without listening to what the people at home said. My husband beat me a lot for crying at night. There was a small crack in the shoulder. So he spent four long days there with beatings and throwing. Later my mother came to pick me up. But they didn’t give me Kochi. Finally the police intervened and left her husband’s house with Kochi. She went to work in the seventh month after giving birth. I now feel that leaving my husband was the best decision. I want to say that when there are problems, you should not commit suicide, you should live and show them in front of them.
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Last Updated Apr 14, 2023, 9:29 PM IST