2024-04-23 19:25:20
Question: ‘It has been more than 6 years since my relationship. The partner loves and is also loyal. But he is not serious about his future, neither studies properly nor thinks anything about his career. Even with my job, I find time to meet and talk to her. But no efforts are seen from his side.
After repeated attempts, now I am tired and feel like breaking up with her. Even after sharing everything he is not improving. No one makes any effort to stop me, nor does he want to leave me. His actions are starting to irritate me. Due to carelessness regarding career, now the chances of marriage have reduced completely. In such a situation, how can one get out of the relationship without hurting the partner?
regarding this problem Vishal Bhardwaj, Relationship Coach and Founder of Predictions for Success Gave advice. Which helps in simplifying the confusion of many relationships. Let us also tell you their opinion. (All the pictures are indicative, we keep their identity secret in the stories shared by the users)
question yourself
First of all, think about your feeling and productivity as well as future possibilities. Are you ready to give this relationship more time, to experience being unhappy? If the answer is no, then you should talk openly about this with your partner.
listen to your partner too
When you share your heart’s feelings with your partner, keep in mind that you should say everything clearly and in clear words. Explain your thoughts and feelings patiently. Also, after listening to you, listen carefully to what your partner has to say.
Be prepared for decisions
After sharing your feelings with your partner, everything may end smoothly and he/she will respect your feelings. But during this time everything can go wrong, so be prepared to understand the impact of your decision. For this it is very important for you to become emotionally strong.
love yourself
The time after exiting any relationship is the most important. This only shows how emotionally strong you have been. To come out of this relationship, now you have to focus on yourself, give yourself the love you want from others.
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