Iliana mavromati spoke to the camera of the show “Studio 4” about the relationship with her parents, the actor Vassilis Mavromatis and also the actress Lila Kafantari.
In particular, the well-known actor first said: “I didn’t stop calling them. We were never “killed” but I wouldn’t go back (ss home). It was better to be alone. I only lived with my mom. My parents got divorced when I was 5 years old. I have some memories from that time. I remember a “together” way, it was pleasant. I had 4 brothers now I have 3”.
He then said: “I started making a living from this job very quickly. As soon as I finished drama school, I instantly started working as an actor. During the first years at work I hid my relationship with my father. I was no match for his talent. Then I found the positive side of it, I contacted people who worked with my mom. My mother wouldn’t let me watch her on TV.”
Two narcissism and psychoanalysis he said: “I understood my parents’ narcissism through psychoanalysis. As a child I began to understand this function, then I realized that it is almost natural in our work and art to have this element.Narcissism is sometimes healthy.
We are the artists we are drama queens and if that narcissism is not worked on, it comes out raw. For me, narcissism comes out in those closest to me. I come across as a perfectionist, in that I am very hard on myself, I have many ups and downs psychologically. I don’t let these feelings go unchecked though,” he said.
“I have many pieces of them, many unconscious perceptions, many functions that go down through DNA, but we are not just our parents. It must be a struggle to figure out what we want to keep from our parents and what we want to throw away.”
How can artists effectively balance their family legacies with their own artistic identities?
Interview with Iliana Mavromati: Navigating Artistic Identity and Family Dynamics
Time.news editor (TNE): Today, we have the pleasure of speaking with iliana Mavromati, an accomplished actor who recently opened up about her unique relationship with her famous parents, the actors Vassilis Mavromatis and lila Kafantari. Thank you for joining us, Iliana.
Iliana Mavromati (IM): thank you for having me! I’m excited to share my experiences.
TNE: In a recent interview, your father spoke candidly about his childhood experiences, especially regarding family dynamics after your parents’ divorce. How did this shape your view on relationships within the entertainment industry?
IM: Growing up in a family of actors, I often saw the complexities of relationships. My father’s reflections about their divorce when he was just five really resonated with me. He emphasized the importance of maintaining connections despite challenges. This has taught me to navigate my relationships with care and compassion, both within my family and in the larger industry.
TNE: Your father mentioned that he started working as an actor immediately after drama school, yet he expressed concerns about living up to his parents’ talents. How do you see that self-comparison affecting artists, and what advice would you give to those struggling with similar feelings?
IM: I think self-comparison is a common struggle among artists. It can be motivating but also paralyzing. My father’s experiences highlight the necessity of redefining what success means for each of us. My advice is to focus on your own journey, celebrate your individuality, and remember that every artist has their own unique path.
TNE: A fascinating point your father brought up was the concept of narcissism among artists. He suggested that a certain level of narcissism can be healthy in promoting artistry. What is your stance on this perspective?
IM: That’s a nuanced conversation. Narcissism, when understood and channeled positively, can cultivate creativity and drive. However,it’s crucial for artists to maintain self-awareness.As my father noted, unchecked narcissism can lead to negative repercussions. Artists should strive for balance—acknowledge their aspirations while also holding space for vulnerability.
TNE: In discussing personal identity, your father mentioned inheriting traits and perceptions from his parents while also emphasizing the importance of self-revelation. How can artists reconcile familial influences with their personal artistic identity?
IM: It’s a continuous struggle, but also a rewarding one. Artists should engage in introspective work to distinguish between what they want to carry forward from their family legacy and what they wish to shed. This process of self-exploration can enrich their work and lead to authentic expression.
TNE: what practical advice would you offer budding actors or artists on navigating their familial relationships while pursuing a career in the arts?
IM: I’d advise young artists to cultivate open communication with their families. Share your ambitions and fears—this can foster understanding and support. Moreover, invest time in self-reflection; understanding your background can be a powerful tool. Whether it’s through therapy,journaling,or conversations,knowing yourself enhances your art. Embrace your whole story, as it shapes who you are as an artist.
TNE: Thank you, Iliana, for sharing your insights and personal experiences.It’s been a pleasure speaking with you!
IM: Thank you! I appreciate the chance to share my thoughts.