(24News) Pakistan‘s oldest actor Firdous Jamal explained the reason for his differences with his wife and children.
According to the details, Firdous Jamal recently made several revelations regarding his private life and ongoing problems while participating in a podcast. That he felt bad. According to Firdous Jamal, a woman in his house started acting in dramas without his permission, so he felt bad, on which he separated from his family.
He said that he came to know that a woman of his family had applied to work in a play, on which he inquired how the woman of his family was working without his permission. On which he was told that there is no need to ask permission from him? The actor said that he got angry because of this, why there is no need to ask him? Firdous Jamal said that he belongs to the traditional Pashtun tribe, where Women’s work is not considered good, if the woman of their house starts working in dramas, everyone would mock them, asking them that now the women of their house will also do the same work.
Giving an example, he said that if someone asks me tomorrow that your daughter-in-law is working in dramas, your family has also started this work? So my respect will be left. Ferdows Jamal, using a slightly harsh word, said that he would like to be called an actor and an artist, would not like to be called a kangar.
In response to a question, he said that he does not think women working in showbiz are wrong or call them wrong, there are good and bad people in showbiz but everyone has their own will, they do not want their Women of the family should work in show business. On the question of divorce of his wife, Firdous Jamal said that he does not know whether the wife has approached the court for divorce or not. However, he is not in favor of it. He clarified once again that he was not thrown out of the house by his family, but he himself separated from them because he felt that he was not being respected there.
How can families support each other while navigating career choices in the entertainment industry?
Time.news Editor: Welcome to Time.news! Today, we have the opportunity to delve into the personal life of one of Pakistan’s oldest and most respected actors, Firdous Jamal. Recently, he opened up about some personal struggles in a podcast, revealing tensions in his family life. Joining us to discuss this intriguing situation is Dr. Amina Rehman, a family therapist with extensive experience in celebrity family dynamics. Thank you for being here, Dr. Rehman.
Dr. Amina Rehman: Thank you for having me! I’m excited to discuss this important topic.
Time.news Editor: Firdous Jamal has expressed dissatisfaction regarding a family member acting in dramas without his consent. In your expertise, what are some common causes of conflict over career choices within families, especially in the artistic fields?
Dr. Amina Rehman: It’s quite an interesting point. In creative families, especially in the arts, roles can create tension. Often, there’s a traditional expectation tied to roles, especially from older generations who may feel a sense of ownership or authority over certain family dynamics. When a family member begins to pursue their passion without seeking approval, it can feel like a challenge to that authority, sparking conflict.
Time.news Editor: That’s insightful. It seems that Firdous Jamal felt particularly hurt by the situation. How important is open communication in preventing misunderstandings like this?
Dr. Amina Rehman: Open communication is absolutely vital. In cases like this, where emotional stakes are high, a lack of discussion can lead to feelings of betrayal or disrespect. If Firdous felt sidelined by his family’s choices, it’s likely that this could have been alleviated through frank conversations about desires, boundaries, and expectations.
Time.news Editor: Given the public nature of Firdous Jamal’s life and career, how might the pressures of fame influence family dynamics?
Dr. Amina Rehman: Fame can add a layer of complexity to family interactions. There’s often a significant public scrutiny that can exacerbate private tensions. Feuds or conflicts can quickly become public, leading to further stress and pressure on relationships. It can be challenging for family members to navigate their identities, particularly when one is in the limelight while others may feel overlooked or overshadowed.
Time.news Editor: Following Firdous Jamal’s revelations, what would your advice be to families in similar situations dealing with conflicts around career choices?
Dr. Amina Rehman: I would encourage them to prioritize open dialogue. Families should create a safe space to express their feelings without fear of retribution. They might consider mediation from a neutral third party if deep-seated issues exist. Fostering an environment of mutual respect and understanding around career choices can lead to more enriching and supportive familial relationships.
Time.news Editor: Thank you for sharing your insights, Dr. Rehman. It seems that addressing issues with empathy and communication could greatly enhance relationships, especially in high-pressure environments like show business.
Dr. Amina Rehman: Absolutely, and thank you for bringing attention to such an important topic. It reminds us that behind the glitz and glamour, there are complex human emotions and relationships that need nurturing.
Time.news Editor: Thank you for joining us today, and for shedding light on these issues. We look forward to having you on our show again!