What does a woman want from her husband? If women are asked this question, then surely their answer will be love and respect… However, there is nothing wrong in this. If you have a loving and caring person in your life, then no doubt there will be only happiness in your life. Yes, it is a different matter that despite having a lot of love and respect in the relationship, most of the husbands take their wives for granted, which is not right.
This is because knowingly or unknowingly we say some things to our partner which should not have been said. Although this applies to both husband and wife, but it has been seen many times that as years gradually pass in a marriage, the husband starts noticing small things about his wife. (All photos – iStock)
‘Are you going to wear this?’
It cannot be denied that most of the husbands want to see their wife in hot clothes on honeymoon, but after marriage, when she goes out wearing those clothes, then the husband does not like it. In such a situation, there is more problem when the couple is living in a joint family. In such a situation, most of the husbands are seen asking, are you going to wear this? This will look good on you too. I think you should wear something comfortable.
What do you do at home?
There is no doubt that when a man goes out of the house to earn, he has to face many problems. But this also does not mean that your wife living at home does not do anything. Managing a house is a big responsibility in itself, in which every little thing has to be taken care of. In such a situation, if you tell them what you do at home, they will not like it.
how thin you were before
Women are very sensitive about their looks. In such a situation, if you tell your wife that ‘you used to look so thin and beautiful’, she will not like it at all. This is because after marriage, a lot of changes occur in the body of women, whereas when they become mothers, things change even more than before.
In such a situation, if you tell them this, they will feel that your love for them is ending. It doesn’t matter to you what situation she is going through.
mom cooks very good food
It may be possible that your wife does not know how to cook tasty food like your mother, but still it is not right to make her feel that she is not as perfect in her work as your mother. One reason for this is that everyone’s way of working is different. No two humans can be alike. In such a situation, how can their way of working be the same?
this is not my job
There should be equal participation of both husband and wife in household work, but most of the husbands seem to avoid it. Even if they are told some work by mistake, they immediately hear that this is not their work. It is not written anywhere as to whose work is whose and whose not. If your wife wants your help in something, then there is no hesitation in helping her.