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A candid glimpse into Kelsea Ballerini’s pre-date jitters has resurfaced, offering a relatable moment of vulnerability as she reflects on the beginning of her relationship with Outer Banks star Chase Stokes. The country singer posted a throwback video on TikTok in August 2023, revealing footage she originally sent to a friend before her first official date on January 7, 2023.
Pre-Date Rituals and the Power of a Pep Talk
The video, set to Ballerini’s own song “How Do I Do This” – a track exploring the anxieties of re-entering the dating world after a long hiatus – showcases the singer meticulously preparing for the evening. She models her outfit for the camera, declaring, “Here’s the look, with the boots.” The attention to detail extends to her hairstyle, a half-up, half-down style completed with a hair clip, as she playfully admits, “We’ve got the hair clip, because we’re trying to be a cool girl.”
The clip provides a charmingly honest portrayal of the internal dialogue many experience before a first date. Ballerini can be heard explaining the evening’s plans to an unnamed friend, revealing, “He’s picking me up and we’re going to a sushi place and I’ll call you tomorrow for a full update.”
Facing Fears with Humor and Self-Assurance
Before heading out, Ballerini takes a deep breath, raising a finger in the air as if summoning courage. “I can do this. I can do this,” she repeats, a mantra of self-encouragement. She then breaks into a small dance, offering a lighthearted perspective on the situation. “It’s just a date,” she proclaims, “You just go and you just eat food and you talk about things that you do, OK?”
This relatable moment resonated with fans, highlighting the universal experience of pre-date anxiety. The video serves as a reminder that even public figures grapple with the same insecurities as everyone else, and that a little self-talk and a positive attitude can go a long way. The post, shared on TikTok, quickly gained traction, offering a sweet and intimate look into the early stages of a now-public relationship.
